It’s funny, they also try to justify cheating on a bi person by saying “they were gonna cheat on me first” like, ok bro, you ruined the relationship but ok
61% of bisexual women have reported being r#ped, assaulted or stalked by an intimate partner, this harmful rhetoric is indicative of a greater violence experienced by bisexual women. I am not surprised that they can spew so much hatred and violence lol TikTok straight males are slowly turning into Instagram straight males.
they are so stupid. my friend is bi and been with a dude for 6 months never cheated on him once. im pan and been with somebody for a whole year and didn't cheat.
I think it's more bi-misia (if I can combine words like how these labels wete created) than phobia. While "phobia" means fearful or hateful, it really implies more fear which may turn into hate. -misia exclusively means hate and repulsion.
That said, some of these people are uneducated and stubborn, a trait with this generation in general. Rather than throwing lables at them (because that will TOTALLY make someone listen to you, right?!), try to challenge their opinions by asking them, "Oh really? What credible, academic did you get that information from?" or "How did you come to that conclusion?"
Opening up with these questions can help decipher if they are riding on a stereotype, prejudice, or article (biased or unbiased). Then, you can try to get them to your side. "Oh wow so much biphobia" OK, great start for identifying the problem, but how are you going to solve the problem since you're the one who called it out?
I personally am not bi, so I cannot speak on behalf of them. However, a response to some of these could be:
"Hey! I saw your post and just wanted to let you know that being bi just means you CAN find both genders attractive and form a relationship with them, empahsis on CAN. Monogamy is not exclusive to certain sexualities. A Bi person choosing the opposite sex to form a relationship does not invalidate their sexuality. As with straight relationships, you can find others attractive, but not feel lustful toward them."
A shorter reponse: "Bi people CAN be in a relationship with both genders. Doesn't mean they have to be. According to your logic, monogamous straight people have a romantic relationship with every girl they meet, since they only find one gender attractive?"
I also think its okay to not want to date someone who is bi or a sexuality that is not your own. A woman who is lesbian wouldn't feel comfortable dating a man. A straight man wouldn't feel comfortable dating a man. Asexual and aromantic people probably don't date in general. Pansexual people are probably hesistant to date based on appearances. People may not date people who are trans and on hormone blockers because they want children, have religion stopping them, or want a nuclear family.
If you are offended that someome won't date you because of your sexuality, then i think it's better to move on than to force them or tell them off. Everyone has preferences, including yourself.
Sorry for the amount of cursing that is here. Fuck anyone that's bi-fucking-phobic. It's so fucking disgusting to see people being proud of this type of bullshit. I am literally about to cry because of how fucking fucked up this is, it's annoying because I now know that I won't be able to live my life like a fucking bisexual without people judging me and putting stereotypes on me and saying that I'm "faking" it. It makes me so mad. I haven't even come out to my parents and it scares me so much now that I have to deal with this type of bullshit. I don't know where they got that from, but I know most of them are fucking guys with no girlfriends. Sorry for the rant but I need to get this off my chest.
no no it's alright, honestly my account is a safe place for bisexuals so if you wanna rant again my message board is always open. sorry if I'm being creepy lmao :")
I haven't come out to my parents either about being bi. The other day I broached the subject to my friends and my boyfriend (I made it a hypothetical scenario) and I experienced that hate first hand. I just laughed it off but it hurt. ╥﹏╥ On top of that... not my boyfriend judging me for reading yaoi and saying "It's not good, that's what's got you confused." This shit is honestly depressing.
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What the fuck is on with the cheating thing
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Imagine being a bisexual woman.... you're hated by
1) misogynists
2) a lot of the lgbt(the biphobic population)
3) homophobic people
How nice. Yummy hate.
Being bisexual doesn't mean that we're going to cheat just because we like both gender's
It’s funny, they also try to justify cheating on a bi person by saying “they were gonna cheat on me first” like, ok bro, you ruined the relationship but ok
61% of bisexual women have reported being r#ped, assaulted or stalked by an intimate partner, this harmful rhetoric is indicative of a greater violence experienced by bisexual women. I am not surprised that they can spew so much hatred and violence lol TikTok straight males are slowly turning into Instagram straight males.
they are so stupid. my friend is bi and been with a dude for 6 months never cheated on him once. im pan and been with somebody for a whole year and didn't cheat.
this is so dumb, why are people like this.
I lost braincells.
I think it's more bi-misia (if I can combine words like how these labels wete created) than phobia. While "phobia" means fearful or hateful, it really implies more fear which may turn into hate. -misia exclusively means hate and repulsion.
That said, some of these people are uneducated and stubborn, a trait with this generation in general. Rather than throwing lables at them (because that will TOTALLY make someone listen to you, right?!), try to challenge their opinions by asking them, "Oh really? What credible, academic did you get that information from?" or "How did you come to that conclusion?"
Opening up with these questions can help decipher if they are riding on a stereotype, prejudice, or article (biased or unbiased). Then, you can try to get them to your side. "Oh wow so much biphobia" OK, great start for identifying the problem, but how are you going to solve the problem since you're the one who called it out?
I personally am not bi, so I cannot speak on behalf of them. However, a response to some of these could be:
"Hey! I saw your post and just wanted to let you know that being bi just means you CAN find both genders attractive and form a relationship with them, empahsis on CAN. Monogamy is not exclusive to certain sexualities. A Bi person choosing the opposite sex to form a relationship does not invalidate their sexuality. As with straight relationships, you can find others attractive, but not feel lustful toward them."
A shorter reponse:
"Bi people CAN be in a relationship with both genders. Doesn't mean they have to be. According to your logic, monogamous straight people have a romantic relationship with every girl they meet, since they only find one gender attractive?"
I also think its okay to not want to date someone who is bi or a sexuality that is not your own. A woman who is lesbian wouldn't feel comfortable dating a man. A straight man wouldn't feel comfortable dating a man. Asexual and aromantic people probably don't date in general. Pansexual people are probably hesistant to date based on appearances. People may not date people who are trans and on hormone blockers because they want children, have religion stopping them, or want a nuclear family.
If you are offended that someome won't date you because of your sexuality, then i think it's better to move on than to force them or tell them off. Everyone has preferences, including yourself.
Sorry for the amount of cursing that is here.
Fuck anyone that's bi-fucking-phobic. It's so fucking disgusting to see people being proud of this type of bullshit. I am literally about to cry because of how fucking fucked up this is, it's annoying because I now know that I won't be able to live my life like a fucking bisexual without people judging me and putting stereotypes on me and saying that I'm "faking" it. It makes me so mad. I haven't even come out to my parents and it scares me so much now that I have to deal with this type of bullshit. I don't know where they got that from, but I know most of them are fucking guys with no girlfriends.
Sorry for the rant but I need to get this off my chest.
no no it's alright, honestly my account is a safe place for bisexuals so if you wanna rant again my message board is always open. sorry if I'm being creepy lmao :")
I haven't come out to my parents either about being bi. The other day I broached the subject to my friends and my boyfriend (I made it a hypothetical scenario) and I experienced that hate first hand. I just laughed it off but it hurt. ╥﹏╥
On top of that... not my boyfriend judging me for reading yaoi and saying "It's not good, that's what's got you confused."
This shit is honestly depressing.