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Am I gay?
Okay uhm. So I'm a straight guy I think BUT I got into bl webtoons and things of that sort after reading some of the straight things on this site for a while. And I mean I like the bl WAY more then I ever liked the straight webtoons and now I have trouble reading the straight webtoons because every guy seems so shitty. And when I shared bl with some of my friends just recommending it to them because of the good plotlines, everyone kinda thought I was gay and questioned me for a while. And well now I'm kind of questioning it as well. I haven't felt anything for a girl and I'm not into anything straight anymore I find guys a lot more arousing then I do girls now and i just wanna know from some people if I'm still straight and it's just kind of like a phase of some sorts or if I'm actually gay, being gay kind of makes me scared not because I'm homophobic or anything but because I hang around a friend group that seems like they could be homophobic. I dont really know I just need to know if I'm gay or not.
Well that’s up to you to decide, if you like guys or not. Sometimes, reading BL dosent automatically mean your gay if you’re asking that because I know some straight guys who read BL
but as I said before it’s up for you to decide 1 reply
it's not something we can decide for you but if it makes you feel any better, i relate to you. I also started feeling something for girls after getting into lesbian porn and yuri a long time ago but i brushed it off as a phase even though i felt something with women too. although, now i'm still totally confused about where I stand concerning my sex...... 1 reply
Try to think more about your real life crushes and attractions, and their nature. Like if its just sexual or romantic or both. And notice if there have been any patterns.
You sound bisexual to me. I have these "waves". Which means for some periods of time i feel more attracted to women and then i feel more attracted to men. reply
reading/liking bl doesnt automatically make u gay. i know a few straight guys who likes bl, even a married man with 2 kids. ofc i cant tell u if ur gay or bi or straight bc ur the only one who can confirm it. take ur time in exploring ur sexuality and preferences, only if ur up for it but dont jump into conclusions hastily just bc ur friends starte...... reply
Well there is a chance of you being bisexual or gay .you know there is a always a chance of discovering new things about yourself after you come across it. If you felt things about girls before reading BL I would say you are bisexual but if you haven't felt anything about opposite genders before or no gender in particular I'd say you are asexual or...... reply
I’m 100% sure that I’m a gay male, so to answer your question to the best of my capability, I think there is a very very large chance of you being gay, attracted to men. Of course, gender identity always comes into play at some point, but if you are sure that you are a guy, and you feel no attraction to women, but do feel attraction to men, I t...... reply
