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Early phase of LDR
how do you guys keep it up? how much is too much for you guys? I know texting everyday is okay, but what about voice chats? video calls? I have known my partner for 5 months now, but we have never done any video calls. Maybe I should discuss this with him later on, but I dont know how. This is awkward, we're trying to keep things low-key but am I being too impatient? Any thoughts or advice?
I use to be in a long distance relationship and regret it. Of course it's different for everyone, but I wouldn't want to do it again. Mostly becuase I have social anxiety and I hate talking and stuff. But long distance relationship need so much communication. If they are the one you love then you must communicate it to them. No need to feel awkward...... reply
I would say that it Is Definitely something to discuss with your partner. I am in a LDR right now and we don't voice chat much but when we do call each other we talk for hours not wanting to hang up. Every relationship is different and if it is something you are interested in let your partner know. reply
I think you absolutely should, especially if you have no definite proof that they are really who they are. Also keep in mind that there is no such thing as too early, only too late. If you think something is important to you and they get angry at you for that you don't need them. If you want that video call you go ask for it, baby. reply
I went to school with my gf before we dated (still my best friend) but we would always facetime but about 2 years ago I left the school and then she confessed to me (we both had a crush on each other and always did couple stuff I guess) so we started dating and I would facetime and message her at least once a day we could go a few days without talk...... reply