Two of my friends dating behind my back :/

i mean this in the nicest way possible, but their relationship truly isn't any of your business and they do not have to tell you about it. there's always a possibility that they still need time to say something, etc. everyone adjusts to stuff at a different pace.   1 reply

It's unfortunate yours friends didn't tell you but they honestly have no obligation to. Their relationship does not involve you. Maybe they're still tryna figure their own relationship out and don't want to tell anybody yet idk, but you say "dating behind my back" like they're doing it with some sort of malicious intent.   3 reply

“Dating behind my back” darling they just didn’t tell you and seeing your reaction I think I know why. You seem like the kind of person who gets really attached to people and inserts yourself into their life even when they don’t want you to and I suggest not doing that...maybe talk to them? Instead of crying over something that have nothing......   2 reply

Um well take a break from them and then later on confront them of why they were dating behind your back, and tell them that’s not something they should hide from a close friend, in all honesty if I were in ur situation I would do this. If you do this goodluck then ^^ Also always know that if they start saying stuff that make u fell uncomfortable ......   reply

Their relationship does not involve you. its a tuff life miss girl ..   1 reply

nothings wrong with you,liking one of your friends is hard especially if you know they have someone else on their kind.I don’t know why they didn’t tell you about their relationship but i think you just gotta be there to support them and gl bestie dealing with situations like these are hard to say the least   2 reply

I feel bad for you ngl cause everyone is shitting on you so I think I wanna say some things 1. Your feelings are valid. You don’t need to think you are wrong for feeling what you feel just because other people are saying you’re nosy. 2. You’re probably emotional because you still need to process this situation 3. This is how I see it: you fee......   reply

seeing as you said you liked one of them are you sure it's not bc you're heartbroken over that? maybe they knew and decided to spare your feelings if everyone else knew ;-; i feel like if i found out two of my friends were dating 'behind my back' id be hurt they didnt tell me but i wouldnt cry..   reply

my friends don't know i have a boyfriend... coz its honestly none of their business... like theirs should not be yours. Not everyone is comfortable telling their friends EVERY SINGLE THING.   1 reply