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Girls do the housework and serve their parents.
That's the gist of what my mother usually said. The latest occurrence was last night, when I was helping wash the dishes. My mother said that girls should be good and do the housework and be filial to their parents. She also likes daughters that do all the cooking and cleaning. She likes to point out that my cousins that are girls are really good at cooking and obedient. I have a nice mother, but I wonder if she's old-fashioned. She and my father do not support homosexual relationships, especially not marriages. Is there a reason other than gender roles, or even a legitimate reason, that girls are expected to dress well and do the housework? Is there a specific good reason why kids learn gender schemas? Why do people assign clothes and actions to genders? There must be reason why a man can not wear dresses and makeup. But why have historically, many men have had long hair, dresses, wigs, makeup, heels, and elaborately decorated clothes? Candace Owens said that "manly men" should be brought back and she wants a man to be manly and chop wood because that's "sexy." She is against men that dress up the way they want. Fuck her shitty views. Are gender roles a social construct?
I've replied with this under another person's comment, yea, but I do not care.
The time has come, my friend. It's time to take the old woman to a nursing home. reply
these stupid gender roles and stereotypes have no history or facts behind them. homosexuality was prevalent almost everywhere back then but these christian missionaries started preaching homophobia, racism and toxic masculinity everywhere, ofc stupid people got brainwashed and still hold onto that shit reply
yea a lot of old ppl told me that "women r just men's slave, no matter what u do n how good u r at things u do, u'll always end up in the kitchen n take care of them kids" i dont really understand about social construct, but i personally doesnt gaf about "girls should be girly cuz u'll be a mother" or "man should be manly cuz u'll be a father"
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Alot of people say that kind of bs everyday, tbh its tiring hearing all those kind of things like bish lemme live my life and mind yo own business, is that thing hard to do? reply
Bruh tf is going on in you're mom's brain? Isn't this like the 21st century? Alot has changed and she should really adapted to it and respect it, this is why i hate some adults.
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ok so basically, the whole "women take care of the household, etc" is because women give birth to kids, so we're expected to stay at home and raise the kids and take care of the household, etc, men usually go out and do the work because they're physically "stronger" or more "capable", so because of that thru out history boys were preferred more bec...... reply
yoo are u talking bout me haha we be the same but like my mom is the absolute worst ngl the amunt of time she cause me trauma is just too much to count on one hand lmao like gurll she be the stepmom from cinderella like she just swashed her finger on dust and place it on my face haha well if u want anyone to talk to im all ears haha reply
seriously though. my parents (and almost every eldery person on my country) is so old-fashioned. my dad would tell me "you need to have healthy skin because you're a girl" and it's obviously not about "having healthy skin" but more to "you're a girl".
also there was this one time where a celebrity (girl), suddenly grew a dick. and when the news sh...... reply
Lets just remove gender roles and stereotypes goddamnit, I heard someone say girls who have a bunch of muscles are “gross” since “men wouldn’t like that” like, they’re not trying to impress you bro, they’re doing it bc they want to reply
