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How do i confront my homophobic friend?
Honestly, my grammar is a little bad but whatever, CONTEXT: Im bi but have a preference for girls. I have this friend who always calls me and my friend (who is lesbian) “weird” and “not normal”, when we’re talking about girls and saying how they're so pretty. Most of my friends don’t say anything about it though cause they think it’s a "joke"(bullshit). And she always says to this guy “I bet you still gay!”, and "I hope your parent hate you for being gay". I feel is kinda bad cause you're using sexuality to make fun of someone so I’m kinda pissed about that. Plus they don't even know his sexuality?? So why tf are you saying that. I wanna tell her I'm bi but I'm kinda scared and don't know how to tell her. :(
Confront her, most of the answers here are "drop her homophobic ass" anyway (i agree), might as well tell her how dry her jokes are. If ever she take the calling out well, good for her. If not, lol not ur loss. God her brain might be straighter than her, she need to exercise them more, mold some curvy figure to them brain and make it make sense. reply
I personally wouldn't tell her... Because she has her own opinions on it. I mean, she calls your other friend weird so it's clear what her opinion is. Just let her be and i recommend never changing in the same room/ stall with her so she can NEVER say you were peeking at her when she's unclothed. Never do anything sussy like kiss her anywhere or ge...... reply
I think it would be best to directly confront her and ask what makes her uncomfortable about/around gay people in particular.
If she states religion/"science" as an excuse, or if she says she's not sure, then I suggest trying to help her be more open to gay people, and seeing that there's nothing different or wrong about being gay.
If her respon...... reply
She sounds like that 1 friend that would say you can trust her with anything but then tells the whole school and says it wasn't her but then brags about it in front of you if I were you I would kick her out of your friend group ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ reply
