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What exactly means fetishising gay people?
I am a girl reading BL mangas and it makes me horny. Am I fetishising?
I heard for the first time about fetishising gay people on this site and apparently it is something extremely bad. Racist bad and it makes me question whether I should continue reading BL. If it is offensive to gay people, I will stop.
Reading BL and getting aroused as a girl is absolutely not fetishizing, don't worry.
Fetishizing the LGBTQ+ is more when you stop seeing them as people and more as your object of arousal. Applying it real life, for example when you ship real life people, is fetishizing too. Or taking away the voice from those groups, like a lot of people on here di...... 1 reply
You're reading yaoi, with two people going at it so sometimes your body can't help but react. Remember you are reading a story about these fictional characters and about their relationship. That's it. Fetishizing gay people is shipping real people irl, wanting them to hook up, while you watch or something. It's seeing gay couple or gay men as objec...... 2 reply
You shouldve googled this if you really want to know and educate yourself. Now watch how people make fun of you instead of explaining why its wrong. 2 reply
It's fetishizing when you take it into the real world and are expecting actually gay people and actual gay couples to act like BL characters and are wanting them to do certain things or are like in their comments requesting 'things' or 'acts' from them like their expected to show it to you and getting I guess turned on from it. This is different fr...... reply
i really don't get it either. if what you're saying is actually true then isn't watching straight porn or hentai also fetishizing? don't come at me y'all. just tryna learn(￣∇￣") reply
Well i am a pansexual woman and yes I get turned on when I read some good bls. But I get turned on when I read/watch straight porn and gls as well so I don't think just watching some hot sex scene and getting horny is fetisizing. The line is crossed when you start thinking of mlm relationships in real life as your sexual playthings. If you're a fet...... 1 reply
Eh so watching gay people fuck turns you on? Yup you're fetishizing . Fetishizing a certain group of people is just disgusting. Idk how you guys don’t understand that. 2 reply
i dont think its when you read bl for the plot, characters, etc but its when people think mlm couples are just play things, idk if thats the right word but for example when people look at a gay couple if they immediately think. “Omg i wonder whos the top and bottom” “Have they fucked before, i know they have”
And things like that. In my opi...... reply
