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should i confess??
There's that guy i like since july last year, he's from another country and i love him a lot... Happily sexuality isn't something in the way (im gay and hes bisexual), but he likes another man- hes so in love with him and i want them to be together cause he will be really happy ^^ But i cant help feeling lonely and hurt when he talks about that other guy or when i know things are going well between them...
Someone that i dont consider a friend but- i know that person really well. Told to everyone i like him, luckly the guy i like wasnt there- I was so scared cause i didnt want him to know-
Some peeps want me to confess to him but i dont know what to do. They say it will be better to me to get it out of my chest but i love him so much i dont want to bother him with those stuff...
How to say this...idk what type of person u are so i'll go with my own judgement. For me, i wouldnt confess. And ik itll hurt me but if the person i love is happy without me then i'm happy too, since afterall their happiness is more important to me even if itll hurt me in the end. 2 reply
ah i have the same problem now, but i just give up because they are already a couple so there is nothing i can do, but if you are really hurt, you have to say that you love him, maybe he will reject you but the pain is just for a moment, otherwise you will regret not expressing your feelings, don’t be like me a coward but hey this is my opinion s...... 1 reply
I'd suggest you to let out and confess those feelings to him when he has confessed to the one he likes or confirmed to you that the two of them are together. You know, then you would be able to support him by saying- "I don't know what that guy was even thinking of rejecting you but I just know you're wonderful and I liked you a lot because of it, ...... 1 reply
I'll just say it very simply, don't let their peer-pressure move your judgment from what it already is. If you think that you want to stand by and have him reach his own happiness because he's going after somebody else, You can do that.
Do not force yourself to confess to somebody, because everybody else is mentioning it. I know what a feels like...... 1 reply
I mean you miss every shot you don't take so I say go for it but I personally wouldn't be able to do it because i believe in setting your feelings aside and letting the other person be happy because it's not like you are aren't going to find somebody else in the future. 1 reply
It's all up to you tbh, you shouldn't let yourself be pressured by your friends and consider what you feel like doing. I would suggest that you should confess but that's just my opinion, you know? What matters the most is that you won't regret anything and that you'll be satisfied with your decision.
I wish you good luck!! 1 reply
personally, i would say dont do it. especially if you want to stay friends with him, some people get over people confessing to them easily and others dont so its really risky. it might make things awkward between you if you do. don't feel pressured by other people, just do what YOU want to do. even if you want to confess thats your own decision to ...... 1 reply
In my opinion, if you can't keep your feelings anymore its better if you confess to him, you can tell him that you just want to let out that feeling and he doesn't have to respond to it. But in the bad side, you have to be brave because there's a probability that things will get awkward between you two (but that depends on the person) 1 reply
That's a private matter, you know your situation the best and only you can make that choice. If the person you like is single, then I'd choose to confess. I prefer being honest and straightforward with myself and my feelings. And if the people around you are already aware of your feelings, it's just a matter of time before it reaches him. I would w...... 1 reply
i wouldnt confess if it was me bc things will get rlly awkward bet. u two esp. that hes been telling u stuff abt them and how he feels. now if u need closure so u can move on, then go ahead and confess but bear in mind that this might end ur friendship too. if things get slightly uncomfortable bet. u two, conversations might slowly stop until u bot...... 1 reply
