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Tell me my sexuality?
Okay..... So I'm definitely attracted to guys that much I'm sure. I like the male anatomy way too much but the thing is I don't get sexually ヽ(`Д´)ノaroused by them or anything for that matter. I would like to get turned on and have sex but my body just don't respond? What's wrong with me? I'm 20 and frustrated aff ヽ(`Д´)ノ
Sexual arousal is only half the equation when it comes to sexuality. You also have to figure who you're romantically attracted to. Some people (demisexuals) are only sexually attracted to those they have romantic feelings for. If you don't have romantic feelings (crushes, infatuations, etc), you may be aromantic, which is a bit different from asexu...... reply
Not being turned on can be be for several reasons. Maybe you just don't get turned on, maybe you need to get really close to someone to get turned on, maybe you just take time to get turned on?
You're young, you have time to figure things out about yourself. Just take things easy and don't stress about it. Stress can make your body act differentl...... reply
You could be asexual, but you also don't have to be. Maybe you just haven't found a person that can make you feel aroused. Try experimenting and try and see what works for you, and once you find that out try incorporating it in your sex life reply
I would agree with bluerobintail. You are not asexual but rather you most likely need to develop feelings for a certain someone at first. So try going out and meeting people. Find a boyfriend, someone you like and trust and that likes and respects you, and then things should progress naturally from there.
For me, before I would have the hots for ...... reply