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Im confused abt my sexuality
so I’ve been calling myself a lesbian for about 1 year. But a lot of people kept on asking if I was actually liking girls or just faking it. A LOT OF READING!!!! I first started liking girls when I kissed one at 8 (pretty young) then as time went on I noticed how I started to like their touch and my heart always would skip a beat when they started physically touching me. Once I finally understood what lesbian was and the LBGTQ+ community I became lesbian officially I guess. But as more and more people started to ask about it I really thought about and now I’m confused. Well let’s start or with “ Do I like men?” No, no I don’t. But when ever I see like anime men or celebrities my minds like “OO NICE” but the thought of them simply breathing or sharing a bed with me makes me uncomfortable and kinda grossed out. Seconded when I think about girls, and them doing the nasty I don’t get the vagina throb thing (I don’t at all feel it when I think about girl and boy doing the nasty) but someone I know said I’m supposed to fell it?? It does get me in the mood tho. So then what do I like about women? Well there gentle, PRETTY! When ever I think about them I always fell so fresh and clean. I squeal when one of them hold my hand and i just stop breathing when they physically touch me. I like to think about soft nice lips smooth body and a gentle voice with long hair. I would actually date a girl then to have to look a mans way. But every time I see these celebrity people or anime dudes my mind just starts asking me “HEY WANT TO THINK ABOU THEN TOUCHING YOU??” No no I don’t. It’s sounds gross. Can someone give me a Little advice?
It's sounds to me like you're a lesbian and anime men and celebrities are the exceptions because they are on a screen they can pretend or someone created them to act a certain way I know a lot of lesbians who find fictional men or celebrities attractive but when it comes down to it they're like "no" I personally don't know how to describe it but I ...... reply
everyone experiences sexual feelings differently. there's no one correct way you're "supposed" to feel, and really the labels you use on yourself (e.g. lesbian) are for yourself. they're only for you to definitively say "i am (a lesbian)," and only you can tell yourself whether you really are or aren't. no 3rd-party opinion, even if they're your fr...... reply
can't answer you 100% but based on my personal experience and some psychology books on lesbian thought processes I think you're still lesbian. Because most of the time celebrities and anime men are designed in a way to interest the audience. Basically they are putting up a front that is attractive to nearly everyone. Plus celeberties and anime men ...... reply
ok this was a bit much to read, i need a second to digest it all.
im pretty sure you're lesbian at the very least. you seem both romantically and sexually attracted to them.
about guys i have to ask a question, would you date a guy because you have romantic interest in him or not? can you see yourself dating them or even having romantic interest ...... reply
You probably are lesbian from what you're saying, though for the getting turned on part, people all have different sex levels and stuff, or none at all. Honestly just take your time, there's no certain way you're "supposed" to feel, as long as you're comfortable reply
It all depends on how you wish to identify and what you feel is right for you. One of my friends likes men and he is a male. However he does say there are good-looking women, he's not attracted to them he just thinks that there can women who are good-looking as well. Judging by something you said, you may want to look into asexuality as well. It's ...... reply
The whole topic of being a member of the LGBTQ+ community is still confusing to me too. Like the reason of a certain person do things like this and that and feel a certain way.
Anyway, you do you. My thoughts on this is that maybe you haven't meet a certain someone yet or maybe you are not lesbian all together in the first place. Maybe you just l...... reply
