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So this is kinda getting out of hand
So as it would seem minority of the gay population, i hope ,on this site seems have a problem with women reading bl and have now generalized them as fetishizers. Like it's starting to get annoying seeing it pop up everywhere like why.. can't people be able to read what they want in peace what happened to an inclusive society and not judging people for what they like (unless its illegal)
It's because the vast majority of them ARE fetishizers. Reading BL doesn't automatically mean you're a fetishizer, yes, but that also doesn't mean you should feel the need to try to excuse fetishizers' actions. And, if what some people like to do is fetishize mlm, then sorry but I'm going to judge them for it. 1 reply
Most guys here don't have a problem with women reading BL, they have a problem with women making their sexuality a fantasy. There are a LOT of fujos on this website who unironically 'wAnT tO bE A gAy mAn' or 'sHiP tHeiR mALe fRiEnDs'. And this isn't even the worst of what these weird mlm fetishizers have said.
That's the problem.
I believe that th...... 2 reply
hi, eng isnt my first language or anything so expect mistakes etc.
its just that almost all of the fujoshis, etc. often fetishize mlm and even wlw. and a majority of them r super toxic and they would force even just same sex friends and tell ppl ''omg i heard theyre canon, if theyre not im dropping this lol.'' and yea- correct me if im wrong tho :)...... 2 reply
i do agree that some gay/bi/pan men do generalize girls like that but i feel like they have a reason to.. some chicks on this site seriously need help and negative impressions leave a greater impact than positive ones.
anyway, in general i stay away from bl stories w/sex unless im interested in the plot cuz: sex isnt it, i dont want to be called a ...... 2 reply
“Tolerant societies can’t tolerate intolerance,” if you actually wanted things to be inclusive, you wouldn’t be defending fetishizers, and gay men have every right to generalize straight women reading BL when most of us ARE fetishzers, what you’re basically saying rn is the equivalent to “nOt All mEN” and the fact that you’re so mad...... 1 reply
Hey guys! Not here to join in since I don't really wanna interfere nor comment on this kind of stuff anymore. I'm just here to give the definition of 'fetishizing/fetish' and sexualizing' straight from Merriam Webster, since some people may just see those words thrown around everywhere and assume what it means instead of searching it up^^
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It’s the latest phase with some groups. Finding others to target makes them feel good about themselves.
Here are some simple uncomfortable truths:
If you want to fetishise anyone, be that gay people, trans people, people with black hair, people with no limbs, people who wear stilettos, leather, or whatever the fuck it is, it’s NOBODY ELSES BU...... 4 reply
I mean, as a bi dude I've met fujos that do just read in silence or ones that you can even have a nice discussion about a bl anime or manga.
But a vast majority can be very unsettling. Often I've had to deal with girls that will ask if you're dating someone just because you're gay and you brush hands once while walking down the street. Girls that ...... 2 reply
Not surprised. It's seems it's human nature to be hypocritical. These same people who group/generalize all women who read bl as fetishizers are the same ones that get upset when they themselves are stereotyped. While I'm not a religious person I do try to live my life by the "Golden Rule," which is basically treat others how you want to be treated....... reply
