As of late I have lost the last person I could call my friend. She won't speak to me at all and I have no clue why. Sadly this is not the first time this has happened, she used to make me feel left out most of the time. But I stuck it out with her because she was the only person who accepted me for me and struck around when I was going through some things. Everyone else left me and stopped talking to me and the sad thing is that she knows about all of that. And still decided to do to me what everyone else did to me. It sucks to know no one to talk to or go to when you need a friend. I have been finding as of late I really needed and friend and she is just not there anymore. But sadly I can see now that she never really truly cared at all. I just wish I was able to keep friends!! Am I really that bad of a person.
To be honest I've been on both sides, one who got cut and one who ended it. Looking at it from now it was harder when I ended it... Now I don't look at if someone was blame, just things happens in life and sometimes relationship becomes toxic. But right thing to do is end it, even if it is hard. Sometimes caring and loving for someone is not enough to stay together. You can't change someone by force and the way that 2 people are then they can't maintain relationship. I won't say time actually heals, but it really helps to see things from different angle and that changes you.
You are wasting your emotions for someone who doesn't even care about you . If she really was a true friend she'll never do that to you , anyway i know this : if she belongs to you she'll return if not then i hope that one day u'll find a real friend stay always by your side ALWAYS ! So move on quickly she doesn't deserve your time , you should enjoy life in this moment. GO FOR IT ! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Omg babe no, you are NOT the problem. Those people are. Especially your friend if she left you knowing you’d been through that before. I know it doesn’t seem like it, but you DO have friends, but we have the tendency to overlook them. So if there’s someone who’s always asking if you’re ok, how your day was, etc. they’re your true friends. I’ve been in your shoes so I know it’s not fun but after a while you won’t even remember those people. So keep your chin up, face forward, and smile beautifully as always. We’re here for you!
More times than not, it has to do with the other person and not you. I'm not sure how old you are, but trust me, some of these things get easier with time. I had a good friend who up and left me, and then she became my friend again after a fight. I also have had friends backstab me and never be my friend again. All this happened in high school so it was fairly traumatic for me, but I got over it.
Hey if you wanna talk or rant hmu. I understand how you feel, though iv never been cut off I know what it’s like to have that disconnect with people around you and when the people you were close with do some dumb shit it can mess with you a bit, you just gotta keep your head up and find the people who do care, keep them close and if people want to walk away let them walk away. You shouldn’t have to chase after anyone.
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To be honest I've been on both sides, one who got cut and one who ended it. Looking at it from now it was harder when I ended it... Now I don't look at if someone was blame, just things happens in life and sometimes relationship becomes toxic. But right thing to do is end it, even if it is hard. Sometimes caring and loving for someone is not enough to stay together. You can't change someone by force and the way that 2 people are then they can't maintain relationship. I won't say time actually heals, but it really helps to see things from different angle and that changes you.
You are not Bad at all! It may take time but you will fond people who will care about you.
It's not your faut, but if you coule find out why, or could help toi.
You are wasting your emotions for someone who doesn't even care about you . If she really was a true friend she'll never do that to you , anyway i know this : if she belongs to you she'll return if not then i hope that one day u'll find a real friend stay always by your side ALWAYS ! So move on quickly she doesn't deserve your time , you should enjoy life in this moment. GO FOR IT ! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Omg babe no, you are NOT the problem. Those people are. Especially your friend if she left you knowing you’d been through that before. I know it doesn’t seem like it, but you DO have friends, but we have the tendency to overlook them. So if there’s someone who’s always asking if you’re ok, how your day was, etc. they’re your true friends. I’ve been in your shoes so I know it’s not fun but after a while you won’t even remember those people. So keep your chin up, face forward, and smile beautifully as always. We’re here for you!
More times than not, it has to do with the other person and not you. I'm not sure how old you are, but trust me, some of these things get easier with time. I had a good friend who up and left me, and then she became my friend again after a fight. I also have had friends backstab me and never be my friend again. All this happened in high school so it was fairly traumatic for me, but I got over it.
It will get better with time, I promise!
Hey if you wanna talk or rant hmu. I understand how you feel, though iv never been cut off I know what it’s like to have that disconnect with people around you and when the people you were close with do some dumb shit it can mess with you a bit, you just gotta keep your head up and find the people who do care, keep them close and if people want to walk away let them walk away. You shouldn’t have to chase after anyone.
(Sorry for saying so much))