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does anybody else find it annoying when u dont wanna label ur sexuality or gender so u just go as "queer" both sexually and as your gender, and people ask you- "Yeah i get that but what ARE you?"
true it's not like you have to let people know what your preferences are. might start using queer online- i dont know why but i like it. gives you a sense of privacy? tho not on mangago cuz ive already made it obvious af. also im a closeted ace and ima jus stay that way for the next 10 years so ig it dont matter much for me irl- reply
True I don't wanna label so if asked I just say I'm whatever. If they persist, I say I'm normal (dodging the Q but indirectly seem to be telling them I'm straight so they back off bc straight people say they're normal). If they still insist for a more specific answer, I just say I'm straight regardless of who I am because sadly I live in a Christia...... reply
People who are unlabeled are valid. You could be still be questioning yourself or still looking for a label you feel comfortable with or you just don’t have an affinity with the current labels that are available to define you. People who try and force you to label yourself are indeed, very annoying.
You gotta hit em with the look reply
Contrary to my username I'm probably not indeed Bi, i may very well be pan or aromantic
I do not know, and frankly I don't really care. Why do I need to label everything and fit everything into a box so that others feel comfortable? Like idm you assuming my gender or sexual orientation, what I mind is invalidating it
As long as you don't do that, t...... reply
