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stop unwanted competition
I've got a friend who also draw like me but we've got this unspoken rivalry on who draws better. It's honestly making me feel awkward so how to stop it? Without talking to her abt this matter? I dont want to take the first step bc I'm afraid that she'd be like, " I didn't know we were having this "competition" yet it was clear as day that she does know. I've been complimenting her art to show that I'm a friend and not a rival. She even far as go and read BJ Alex just so she could draw the characters so she could slap me that fact that she knows how to draw them. I've complimented her Alex, to you know, support her. But it was clear to me that she didn't in fact read it bc she asked me how many chapters they were and I was confused bc as a reader, u could see how many ch are there. So even though I was confused, I told her how many they were and she said, "oh, I'm on ch 56". I didn't say anything bc I didn't want to let her know that I caught her in 4K bc that'd only make things worse. So yeahhhhh how to stop this rivalry? ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ
i’m sorry you have to go through this, i had this type of thing too and to be honest, based on all of the things you have mentioned, i think she’s pretty toxic abt this rivalry thing. i mean the fact that she wanted to feel superior in front of you by drawing BJ Alex without actually reading is just petty af. the best thing to do is talk about ...... 1 reply
Idc i would just say what's on my mind like i would go like this "bitch, are you being fr now? You know exactly what is going on here so stop acting like you know nothing, besides why would you ask how many ch there are and then act like you know how many there are and say you're already on ch 56 like bitch stfu you ain't trickin' me mf. And this c...... reply
The best solution is to slowly confront them about it, if they just kept denying it or trying to avoid the issue BEST SOLUTION is to leave them. People like them are too stubborn to admit or at least realise that they are the wrong one. They have too much pride or ego that they always take care of, tell her what you feel and ask her what she feels ...... 1 reply
She wants your attention. I like showing my art for attention but not in they way your friend is doing it. I like reading so I draw when I want and show it off bc I’m proud of it. But it seems she is overly trying to show off in a toxic way. Tell her first and if she understands that you can work it out. If not well you will decide to stay or con...... reply
Ah, I think your friend is like me.
Just a tip, she is just being a tsundere and just wants to get your attention. Yknow, because she loves your drawing. reply
