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Is it ok???
I'm not 100% sure yet, but I think I'm genderfluid, and just wanted to ask if I'm fetishizing mlm because I read yaoi. I've seen some comments saying that women aren't allowed to read yaoi cause it's the same as men with lesbians, but I just wanna know if I'm being a bad person by reading yaoi because sometimes I identify more as female than male. Like, I dunno,, Anyone have a verdict?? Thanks a bunch
Nah, it only becomes a problem when you start fetishising actual gay people. That’s creepy asf. There’s no problem with liking Yaoi, Yaoi (mlm) is meant to be sexualised. It’s literally 2D gay porn with a plot. reply
It gets creepy and annoying really fast when anyone start to (at least to me) refer to irl gay people as "uke" and "seme". Cringier if they say it to said couple's faces. 2 reply
Lmfao, this is adorable. It’s not wrong. The only problem is that some people takes hentai so out of context, they sexualise real people. Reading yaoi isn’t a problem. reply
the problem starts when some people look at lgbt+ people (especially gay people) as if they are yaoi characters and fap material. yaoi is more or less easy fiction created for faticizing, but lgbt+ people are real people with feelings and their own personnality.
I'm a straight girl and i like to read romance and smut in general (yuri doesn't do i...... reply
A "verdict"? "Bad person"? Seriously? You feel sooo guilty just because you like yaoi? XD
First of all, saying that women shouldn't read yaoi because they end up fetishizing gay men is total bullshit. Most of yaoi authors are female and so is the targeted audience. Of course, I often read cringy comments of obsessed people who are like talking pile...... reply
just reading yaoi doesnt make you an mlm fetishizer! im a nonbinary lesbian and i read a lot of yaoi just because i enjoy reading lgbt stories and can identify with them more than with stories about cis heterosexual couples. fetishizing would mean that you support mlm only bc theyre cute or sexy together and associate gay men with sexual positions...... reply
That's such a bad take oh my gosh I haven't heard that argument in so long! No, reading Yaoi, watching gay porn, reading/writing mlm fanfiction, does not mean your a bad person or fetishizing mlm even if you don't identify as a man. It would only be a problem if you get creepy about it, like so many people have said here already. Bugging irl gay me...... reply
