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How to deal with angry mom that hates u. Lol
Moms personality = im right you're wrong. Im the boss of this house so u gotta listen to me. If ure on my side, great. If ure not on my side, fuck u, ure my enemy but ill try and act nice to u with a knife behind my back. If ur mad at me and dont want to talk to me it wont bother me cuz at the end ull come back to me and in always right. It may sound bias but thats how i c her.
Problem = me and her always get along well. Then one day i got grounded for the first time i came home 15 min late than the time that she told me to come home by. Its been a week, she doesnt talk to me if its not necessary, no eye contact, doesnt prepare food for me so now i hafta cook by myself and worst of all she throws tantrums at me multiple times at me (she never done that before)
Me = rn i dont wanna b the one who says srry cuz i think that shes taking it too far (the throwing tantrums at me) but im kinda chill but at the same time scared cuz she will hit me. So im trying to find a way to deal with her without getting killed lol. Do i ignore her when she shout at me? Avoid her? Meditate? Say srry (oh pls dont make me do that, id rather die)
I’m not sure if I’m qualified to answer this given the relationship I have with my mother but I’ll try.
So, with me and my mom, I’m basically the parent, given how childish, stubborn, irrational and down right crazy she usually acts. I can definitely see myself in your situation and in that case, I’d call her out on it and try to get thi...... 1 reply
I think there comes a point in almost every child’s life where they start realizing that their parents are ‘people’. As in, that they have flaws and make mistakes just like everyone else, and that’s normal.
With your situation I first wanna say one thing. NO ONE, ABSOLUTELY NO ONE, has the right to put their hands on you in anger or otherw...... reply
Let me start by saying - if there is violence or the threat of it, don’t try to deal with the situation on your own. Ask for help from other family members (your dad, siblings, grandparents, uncles our aunts), your teachers or social services.
What it took for me to “fix” my relationship with a similar type of parent:
1. Realizing they’r...... reply
Sigh.... Apologizing is not a low thing.
Now if I ask you, do you want to get on with your mother?
For some reason, if you feel you can still talk to your mother, then talk to her. But if not, you simply ignore it. If she's still not doing physical abuse, you're still safe. But if she is already, then go from her house and live alone somewhere....... 1 reply
https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-teach-my-16-year-old-daughter-not-to-cry-when-I-yell-at-her-for-doing-something-wrong
Discourse on here will tell you more than I ever could. But I will say that her not making food for you can be considered neglect. How old are you by the way? If you are comfortable with answering, this can really change on how we a...... 2 reply
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I thank everyone for all the advise u guys r giving me. Here r some more information about the situation and how i think.
Sooo i dont have any grudge on saying srry but i guess that the way i c it isnt the best eigther.
Tbh i dont think that saying srry would help the situation. This is bc shes been shouting at me for every sin...... 3 reply
