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Advice please
ok so as the title suggests, I need some advice. So tomorrow school starts and I just found out a share a science class with a ex friend(?) of mine. So some context, in the beginning of freshman year, me and Bella (fake name) were friends. We were somewhat close (we would stay up to text eachother and hang out every period we had together). However, as freshman year went by, we kinda stop being as close. we quickly ran out of topics to talk about so she was more silent; this made me kinda scared bc she was kinda intimidating and I kinda stopped talking as much. it was awkward because we were in the same friend group (I was the same way with the friend group as well) and we had like 3 classes together. So freshmen year ended and, except for a few hallway bump ins, we completely lost touch. I think sophomore year was when I realized that Bella wasn’t necessarily trying to be cold and it was more her personality + with me being less chatty, she wasn’t sure how to go about it either. I was really thinking about it a few days ago and I realized I really regretted not trying to make a greater effort to talk to her and the rest of my friend group. And now (coincidence?) Junior year, we have the same science class. So, like is this a sign from some higher being or something? Should I try to befriend her again? I’m expecting it to be awkward if I do try but I do want to friends again and I really don’t want to be a chicken like I did freshman year. Advice is much appreciated
Well.. what do you want to do? No use saying to you to just be nice and friendly, try making a passing comment about being in the same class again, if you can’t really be bothered.
My honest choice is just be friendly but not over the top. You were friends who drifted apart. It happens ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭. Reminisce a little on some good memori...... reply
Just be you, be natural. It comes if you two come across just relax and go with the flow. Happened to me too and it's a little awkward yes. Make some effort but don't overthink or it'll come off awkward. It'll be better if you two have common interest that you could talk about reply
It’s not a sign from god it’s basic scheduling if your looking that deep into it u just wanna talk to her again so do it, y’all either become friends or you won’t, if you don’t nothing will change from last year and if u do you’ll have 1 more friend, you don’t gotta dwell on it this much reply
i would advise u to say hi to her first. Cause she being intimidating might be just in your mind. Or she grow silent because she’s introverted/mad at u. Nobody knows what’s she thinking so are u. She might like you or not. So try starting a conversation and ask her directly if the topic comes up.If she shows toxic signs, just cut her off. Make ...... reply
Yeah try to befriend her, you generally need to actually talk with people though. Don’t just stay silent. Try to make friends with everybody you can. reply