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Erm can y'all give me advice?
So there's this guy I consider to be one of my closest friends. He's nice, chill, and understanding. Before hoco, he asked me to go with him and I told him that i think I like u but i'm not sure so we should go just as friends. During hoco though, he wanted to talk with me alone and confessed to me and said he wanted to date. I told him again that I'm unsure of my feelings and don't want to hurt him in case I don't like him back. He says he's fine with taking his chances and we should trial date to see if my feelings would change and I agreed. So now we're kinda dating but if I actually feel sick. Like when I think about it, I feel like I'm going to vomit. I don't think I'm ready for a relationship. Give me advice plz
If I'm reading this correctly, you're in a sort of a relationship with this friend of yours but thinking about it makes u sick? It's not you, it's me, my brain just can't comprehend words rn.
You might actually not like this dude, so you better just tell him straight. Cause it'll hurt more given this dude some hope, it's better to have no expecta...... reply
You better tell him now girl. you don't own him anything but you definitely need to have a talk with him before you hurt him without wanting to.
but like, don't tell him this whole relationship makes you sick - tell him you made up your mind about relationships and you're not ready to be with someone. you don't wanna lose your friendship either o...... reply