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Cheating or not ?
Okay guys, so I have a bf who I have been dating for like a month now . And this is the first time ever I've ever gone out with a 'guy'. So yesterday I thought I would suprise him since it's been a month since we started dating ( yes it's really childish but I was just planning on visiting him and just spend some time ), so his mom let's me in and then I open the door to see him masturbating to this girls pic who's from my class. So I just went back home. When I asked him about it he said it's just normal for guys to masturbate and that it's like my periods. So my question is would this be considered cheating ? Am I being too possessive? Also would him masturbating to porn be considered cheating ? It might be an obvious for other but I've only dated girls till now, so plz gimme some advice (〜￣△￣)〜
That's not normal, please try having another conversation with him. I kind of have a bad feeling about this. If you both got together out of love, him masturbating to another person's picture contradicts that. It would be one thing if it was just regular porn and none of you knew the person but it's the picture of another girl he knows. Plus it's n...... 1 reply
I mean, wouldn’t call it cheating, more as disgusting behavior. I say that because, 1: he’s with you and do that to someone you know. 2: if the picture was a normal old picture then he’s doing that to someone without them knowing. Break up with him even if he’s not cheating because that’s hella gross my guy 1 reply
dude if he masturbates to another chic that isn't normal. even tho he isn't directly cheating he might be having contact with that girl as more than just friends way or he may not be interested in you.
plus, he tries to justify it by saying that its like your period what??? honey thats bullshit
these are red flags you wanna be careful, if strange...... reply
Break up with him. You deserve better.
Masturbating to a classmate is like he’s interested in her and not you so drop him girl and find a better man! You don’t need him! If your going to let it slide then things will get worse. 2 reply
