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Asexual and/or Demi-sexual
Ok ok so my friend got a bf not long ago and even before they were already flirting and like sexting (she bought sexy panties for him before they even got tgt) anygays they get together and they both gave each other their virginity after a week.
The moment she texted me “we fucked oopsies” I immediately cringe with a very uncomfortable and pretty disgusting feeling. Not because they did it but because I would litteraly throw up if I had to.
I had my suspicion that I was on the asexual spectrum. I’m pansexual but I honestly wouldnt and don’t feel sexual attraction to men compared to how I sometimes feel it for women.
I’m also asking myself if I’m Demi because I legit can’t comprehend the “love at first sight” or the “we met a week ago let’s date” I don’t feel romantic feeling for people that I haven’t developed a relationship with and that are close to me. Definitely why bestfriend to lovers is my favourite. But in a way isn’t that most people?
As a Demisexual person, that's the same way I feel. The very thought of having a sexual encounter with a person I don't have a connection with makes me wanna puke, lol.
Of course, you could very well be Demi or a sex repulsed ace, that's something for you to find out yourself. Sexualities can sometimes be not as clear cut for some people. It's fin...... 1 reply
Like all identities, it’s all about what you feel is the most comfortable. No need to overthink about it.
But yeah, me too fam. I’ve had sexual relations through hook up sites and honestly I wouldn’t say I was sexually attracted to any of them.
And in a way I did sexual acts just to see if attraction would at least follow that. I’ve foun...... 1 reply
I can’t answer the asexual part, bcs i don’t know much about it. But i am Demi, lol.
I imagined myself in your place, and what i’m getting on my mind is, you feel cringe or disgusted because of the idea how your friend do a sexual stuffs with someone who she knows for a short time.
Demisexuals, have sexual attraction after they bond emotional...... 1 reply
