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Have you ever been hit on/confessed to?
While I was still in high school I went shoe shopping with my mom for prom and she left me alone to go to the restroom. And, the split second she left some dude comes up to me and says "Hi! You are SO pretty! My name's h/n." and he reached out his hand so I just acted polite even tho I was a little weirded out under the circumstances. (keep in mind im like super socially awkward so idk how to respond to that)
It turned out that he worked there but I was a lil skeptical so I bolted out of there (after he walked off) to go where my mom was and we went back tgt after. But, to make things even more awkward a classmate that I knew worked there and she saw the whole thing from earlier. We laughed ab it when I went to say hi and out of curiosity I asked how old he was and she signed w her hand 24 and I was flabbergasted cuz I knew he was older than be but not that much older.
She also told me later on at school that she told him that I was a minor and he responded like "Is that weird?" (/TДT)/ and I was like nahhhh not only did he think I was old he still wasn't certain if that was weird or not after finding out my age??? Mans is fixing to catch a case fr (joke)
But, in the end I always tend to meet the strangest ppl whenever I do go outside (although I do appreciate those who seem genuine like shoe guy he just need to learn to ask ab age first-)
How do you guys deal w being confessed to or hit on? (if you have before)
listen up yeah. i know damn well if someone likes me right but they never confess (its mad awkward and they probably know i don like them back) BUT THERE WAS THIS ONE BOYYY OH MY LOOORDDD he liked me, i liked him, never confessed - distanced ourselves (i mean.. he did kinda?? ion know he always took the initiative to starting a convo) after the h...... 1 reply
I’m weird asf and for some reason ppl still confess to me, and everytime it happens it always feels like I’m being confessed to for the first time because the thought of someone liking me is so unreal (?). Basically I panic at every moment, confessions that were done in texts—I always take ages to reply and send the most awkward reply ever to...... reply
Sadly yes. There's this one really weird dude I had no contact with for over 1 YEAR. He suddenly reached out to me and I again was a therapist friend, so I told him I can't help him because I am not a professional and don't even know how to help myself sometimes. After his break up with my BEST FRIEND he literally confessed to me, which implies he ...... 1 reply
i usually just deflect by saying “i’ve got a gf/bf” which works on everyone but creeps/certain drunks at 2am
but once i said that to a guy (wasn’t a lie this time) and he was like “oh then ill grow a pu$$y for you haha reply
so him and i were friends and he was cool, until one day i was drinking lipton ice tea (that shit is GOOD) and i was getting full so then he asked if he could take the rest cuz he was thirsty (for context it was a can of lipton not a bottle) SO THEN MF SNATCHES IT AND CHUGS THE SHIT LIKE A THIRSTY CHILD IN AFRICA AND WORST PART IS MY FRIEND HAD A H...... 2 reply
A few times yeah, but they are all playboys and I definitely not wanting some problematic kids becoming my partner so I rejected em with the ‘busy studying for my future’ excuse(because we all know that is bullshit).
But ever since my mom married to my new dad, almost no guys had been contacting me. So I'm kinda confused rn. Are they afraid of...... reply
When I was in my freshman year, this stank ass dude idk wth he was doing but he kept on bothering all the girls in the grade asking them questions and staring at them, tryna date them when he had a whole ass gf, including me.
That dude was so fucking annoying and made me so uncomfortable, he had stopped tryin it on me though once I had cut my hair,...... 1 reply
me and a boy in my class used to hang we were in our class and school was coming to an end bro this nigga turned around to me and said "are you gonna be in this school next year"and I said yes BRO HE FUCKING SAID "okay well everytime you go to the bathroom you're gonna feel something under you" 1 reply
What hurts is that irl no...:')
But online yes. A year ago I have this friend, let's call her 'Tiffany'. We talked everyday coz it was indeed my first time talking to an online friend fir so long.
One day I sent her a video that was like- "I love you- youtube" and then after she watched it she was like, "Oh...///" and I was honestly confused I ask...... 1 reply