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Is being clingy to someone you just met okay? I'm talking with a guy who asked for my phone number. He's cute and sweet, but I'll be hanging out with someone in the halls, and he’ll ask who I was with, or when I tell him I'm going to bed, he continues to text me to ask if I'm awake every hour. I told him I liked a certain drink a day before, and he bought me it. It's really cute, I swear, but it's just because we only started talking a few days ago. He even talks about me on Instagram notes; I can literally see them. My brother said it's nice to have someone cling onto you, and it shows that they're interested. It's just.. I guess I'm not used to it. All the guys I liked were total assholes to me, but he's sort of different?
no one should tell you "it's okay" or "it's not okay". How do YOU feel about this? do you find his actions unpleasant? do you wish he'd slow down a bit? do you wish he'd stop?
if it's positive, then be sincere with him and tell him your feelings. it doesn't mean he has to stop completely (if you don't wish that of course), but to slow down because...... 1 reply
Sometimes being clingy Is not bad and means you really like a person but it can turn in obsession very quickly so sometimes it's good to set boundaries at start if he is too overbearing reply
Ewww no it's not okay if you guys just met! Take it slow. Also it reminds me of when this guy liked my friend a LOT and he'd post notes like "damn I want her babies" or some shit like that. Nasty! Everyone can see it and you're being clowned in every GC freak! And she didn't even like him back she'd reject him every time reply
You may find it endearing at first, but I would definitely do something before it gets to be too much. All good things need balance. Guys who are complete assholes are not ok, but guys who seem to cling to you 24/7 are also not ok. I would definitely set boundaries with him in case you begin to feel like you want space, especially since you are not...... reply
Clingyness is ok, and I doubt it's limited to the duration of time you know a person. The degree of it matters though, and I would be pretty annoyed if they texted me every hour, especially to ask if I'm awake bc why are you asking, what purpose does my answer bring to your life? reply
Nuh uh that kinda behavior is not right at all. Trust me it’ll get annoying eventually. I knew a guy like that and made sure to cut them out of my life as soon as I got the chance even tho their behavior towards me was nicer than some other ppl. I just noticed how they started to change and acted a lil too nice despite only knowing me for a short...... reply
