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Do I have pretty privilege?
Ok so I didn't really care about pretty privilege and if I had it or not before but recently I have been seeing a lot of videos of it on YouTube and it got me thinking you see I have the classic story of being the fat funny kid/friend but then having a really big glow up but as much as I would like to be one of those people who have stories of how much they noticed the difference in people and all I don't become I had my glow up when I was like 11 + I have horrible memory and attention span so I don't really remember how people treated me I mean yea I know they are nicer but I don't know how much and before you say "oh you were just a kid how much could you glow up" I was literally 222 pounds and now I'm 133 lbs + I'm 5'7 at only 14 so i look a LOT older than I am I'm a girl btw anyways back to the point so I want to my cousin's 10th birthday today and we had a room rented out in a restaurant so ofc we had people to help with food and making drinks for adults and kids so I asked the guy for a water and there was water right on the table already ready to be give out for guests and they were still new and cold but instead he was insisting he go get a new one for me even though he has to go all the way back to the Kitchen to get it even when I said it's ok and he didn't have to and later that night my cousin's sister needed a phone charger because it was dead but no how much she asked if there was anything he could do to help he said no but when I asked one time he said he would go and ask his friends aka the other workers if they had anything to help and even go look in their break room and I seen him looking at me a few times as well? So anyways do you think I have pretty privilege and has anything like this happened to you?
please take care of yourself and stay safe, judging from this post you sound really naive and impressionable. doesn't matter if you think look older or not, your still a kid at the end of the day and people take advantage of that. trust me when I say that adults can very much tell and know what their doing, all coming from experience so take my wor...... reply
ok (1) don’t mention you’re age anymore on this website if ur a minor
(2) i’m calling the police for you cuz omg no adult should be talking or treating you like that
(3) i think of pretty privilege more as when hot people do bad things but get away with it cuz they’re conveniently attractive (ie most BL male leads) 2 reply
ain't no pretty privilege, that guy is just a creep, all teens think they're older looking but trust me you still look like a child get away from that dude and get tf off this site bro, how can you be this careless, never reveal ur age to strangers on the internet 1 reply
I'm not sure if that is considered pretty privilege I think that there are just more older men interested in you because of your "glow-up" and that is not a privilege... Pretty privilege are things like the halo effect. 2 reply
People who treat others differently just cuz of the way someone looks is pathetic asf like ew grow up. I would say stay away from that guy cuz first of all he sounds like a creep and second of all he's annoying 3 reply
I think you're overthinking it, yes, you might be pretty, but the waiter part was a bit far-fetched ( In my opinion), it's their job, and I wish you'd be careful. Perhaps the reason you noticed that person was staring at you was because you were staring at them first, which might send the wrong signal that you might be an easy target. And mayb...... 1 reply
this is cringe and naive asf youre only 14 dude. when i was 14 i genuinely dont think i even gained consciousness yet let alone got any attention from anyone besides creeps. didnt matter whether i was objectively “pretty” or not i still looked like a kid and acted like one. and i doubt you look much older than the average 14 year old. not to m...... 1 reply
yeah no the way i looked two years ago vs now is really different, and everyone treats me so differently it’s actually kinda shocking. because my “glow up” happened over the summer rq i’m still not really used to all the attention i’m getting from guys which really triggers my flight or fight response, the amount of self sabotage i do in ...... reply
