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Ah, okay. About a month ago I befriended a girl because I thought we might have similar interests, based on how she spoke and texted. When we introduced ourselves and what we like and such, I realized that I did not like her very much and personally I don't think we clicked. Anyways, one of the first things she told me was that she is lesbian, and I said I support her. My mistake was not telling her that I am straight. She recently has been making it very obvious that she likes me, and I literally cannot tell her that I'm uncomfortable with that and I don't want to talk anymore, because I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?
I hope u do realize that ur gonna hurt her even more if u continue to lead her on unintentionally, giving someone a slight hope or thought of chance can ruin a friendship no matter what not even gonna bullshit you, so come clean, make boundaries or something of that sort. but either way you might as well talk and sort things out as of now, if your ...... reply
I advise perhaps bringing up the topic of men you are attracted to or if you had a crush on a boy or sumn. My point is to try letting her know you are straight indirectly.
She actually might but she hasn’t really said she likes you yet so this is still just an assumption. Thus telling her you don’t like her in that way when she hasn’t said...... 1 reply
Maybe try insinuating that you are straight, or just straight up tell her. You could also try making it obvious that you only see her as a friend. Usually when any person makes it obvious that they like me I tend to straight tell them or make it obvious that I'm just not interested. I would probably be best to do so quickly as you also shouldn't le...... reply
Don’t do anything but be yourself. If she confesses her feelings be kind and let her down gently like a normal person. The usual variant of, “oh wow that’s so sweet of you, I just don’t feel that kind of way about you though” said in a style that suits you. It doesn’t have to be drama or lies. She may go off you before confessing anyway...... reply
Best to be honest and tell her the truth as quickly as possible. Bring up your courage(even its slow, its still progress) to tell her that your straight. The quicker the better so both of you can move on with your lives and less painful.
Dragging this relationship will bring you more harm than good and be honest with each other. reply
