I saw the idol I really like smoking a cigarette. The thing is I know is a ‘man’ and is an adult but the thing is that I find it disgusting. I also know how my opinion doesn’t matter. My dad is a smoker and because of him I have asthma so the smell gets me so angry. I was not surprised when everyone in the comments was saying along the lines of “omg he’s so fine” “that’s so hot.” Since everyone was commenting on how they think of him so I just said “thank god I seen this photo it stopped me from being infatuated from him after 5 years.” How was that bad of me?? Why did I have 11 different people calling me pathetic, dumb, parasocial behavior (which didn’t make any sense because I just said I stopped?), and how I HAVE to be 12 years old. This person said that was the most pathetic thing they ever read so I brought up Israel being more pathetic (which was stupid of me because it was the first thing I thought of but should of instead brought up something less serious), (which I did and brought up Sasaeng fan but then the person said it’s different because they are evil and I am just pathetic…) then they got on my ass calling me stupid for not understanding a exaggeration. Which technically I exaggerated but still wrong of me. I have this person getting so pissed not because of the war thing I brought up but saying the word “infatuated” saying I am so dumb for not understanding he’s a grown man???? Like girl I know he is. People got mad saying I wasn’t a ‘real’ fan. So obviously I talked back like it’s okay to say his “hot” for smoking but not okay for saying I am not infatuated. The thing I know they are lying because he’s not know to be “hot” or “fine” in the fandom. I had to defend him from the fan for not being ugly but now I am a fake fan. Why is it okay for them to say he’s hot but bad of me for saying I stopped being infatuated. Like they got so mad at me for saying “infatuated”
Nah I agree with you. I’m against smoking and it’s so sad seeing ppl smoke and just not caring cause they’re adults like come on now you’re lungs damaging your lungs and you can die. Not to mention how it rots ppls teeth and make them age hella
idk if we’re talking about the same idol… but if this idol is the one getting into scandals from a sasaeng left & right as well as being on indefinite hiatus then i cant empathise with you on this im sorry, even if it’s not him. i hate smoking as well but how is an idol smoking affecting you like genuinely, u cant smell it through the screen
I’m sorry about that idol but no it’s a different person. I only said sasaeng fans because they said im the most pathetic person so I point them out. But they said it’s different
I’m sorry about that idol but no it’s a different person. I only said sasaeng fans because they said im the most pathetic person so I point them out. But they said it’s different Gup
ooh i see! i had no idea another idol was in a smoking scandal too hahaha
I’m sorry about that idol but no it’s a different person. I only said sasaeng fans because they said im the most pathetic person so I point them out. But they said it’s different Gup
ohh wow smoking is so common in the idol industry for people who you lknow, need their vocals it’s crazy
This was the only negative thing I said which wasn’t that much but my god they kept on insulting me when I never insult them. Like how am I with the parasocial behavior and yall are acting like that
I can understand about why you feel that way. I also hate smoking and I really can't see how it's hot or cool when it's literally killing you. People may have reasons to smoke but idc there's many ways to chose to feel relief. Totally support you lmaoo it's only bad if you try to tell the idol to stop or whatever but you can have your own opinion about them smoking. Also why would their fans support them smoking when it damages their body lololol
The thing is I never said he should stop smoking. It so annoying because I think smoking tells me a little of someone’s character. I don’t expect him to be a ‘saint’ but if you are stress you pull out a cig because you are an adult. When the idol had dating rumors I was defending him but me saying the word ‘infatuated’ makes me a fake fan.
fr, in one of my classes, there are so many ppl who had serious health issues that could potentially kill them because their family members constantly smoked. shits fucked up. one of the student has a little sister who currently lives with her dad and he smokes so much that the house is black. i feel so bad for that little girl but at least my classmate tries to take his sister out of the house as much as possible so she doesnt die. and ppl still think it's okay to smoke
fr, in one of my classes, there are so many ppl who had serious health issues that could potentially kill them because their family members constantly smoked. shits fucked up. one of the student has a little si... cocopuffs
It makes me even more pissed because of second hand smoking. Like my dad fucked up my mom’s lungs but his are okay even though he almost smoke a pack per day.
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Nah I agree with you. I’m against smoking and it’s so sad seeing ppl smoke and just not caring cause they’re adults like come on now you’re lungs damaging your lungs and you can die. Not to mention how it rots ppls teeth and make them age hella
idk if we’re talking about the same idol… but if this idol is the one getting into scandals from a sasaeng left & right as well as being on indefinite hiatus then i cant empathise with you on this im sorry, even if it’s not him. i hate smoking as well but how is an idol smoking affecting you like genuinely, u cant smell it through the screen
I’m sorry about that idol but no it’s a different person. I only said sasaeng fans because they said im the most pathetic person so I point them out. But they said it’s different
ooh i see! i had no idea another idol was in a smoking scandal too hahaha
ohh wow smoking is so common in the idol industry for people who you lknow, need their vocals it’s crazy
I know right like keep it hidden at least plus it’s shocked me on how many like why are the singers smoking like you not scared.
Never criticize an idol in a comment section full of their fans. If you choose to do it anyway, turn off your notifications.
theyre like animals
This was the only negative thing I said which wasn’t that much but my god they kept on insulting me when I never insult them. Like how am I with the parasocial behavior and yall are acting like that
RAAAAHHHH
Smoking is bad, but you're not entitled to a total stranger about their decisions in life.
I can understand about why you feel that way. I also hate smoking and I really can't see how it's hot or cool when it's literally killing you. People may have reasons to smoke but idc there's many ways to chose to feel relief. Totally support you lmaoo it's only bad if you try to tell the idol to stop or whatever but you can have your own opinion about them smoking. Also why would their fans support them smoking when it damages their body lololol
The thing is I never said he should stop smoking. It so annoying because I think smoking tells me a little of someone’s character. I don’t expect him to be a ‘saint’ but if you are stress you pull out a cig because you are an adult. When the idol had dating rumors I was defending him but me saying the word ‘infatuated’ makes me a fake fan.
nuance, yall have none.
Cry about it. Smoking is cool
You're so quirky and cool. I'm sure, rotting lungs would suit your aesthetic
As if smoking can’t ruin ppls lives and their loved ones.
Right like it’s so selfish
fr, in one of my classes, there are so many ppl who had serious health issues that could potentially kill them because their family members constantly smoked. shits fucked up. one of the student has a little sister who currently lives with her dad and he smokes so much that the house is black. i feel so bad for that little girl but at least my classmate tries to take his sister out of the house as much as possible so she doesnt die. and ppl still think it's okay to smoke
It makes me even more pissed because of second hand smoking. Like my dad fucked up my mom’s lungs but his are okay even though he almost smoke a pack per day.
Cry about it it’s my personal choice babe
I don’t love anyone so I don’t mind
Cry about it
You are the loser who doesn’t love anyone. That also means no one loves you nor cares about you