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Am I the only one
Am I the only one who hate the “I love you” love you too bestie” cuddling, touchy, text each other with cringe ahh emojis and cringe ahh bs (unless jokingly) , talk in high pitch voices when they talk type friendship, I mean I don’t hate it but for me I feel like that’s just a friend, not bff material for me. I want friends that I can hit and they don’t get mad, make fun of ourselves but not to much, actually have conversations that we make us laugh everytime 24/7. Personally I don’t like to get complimented every time we see each other, maybe once in awhile, but not all the time bcs it doesn’t feel genuine no more. Idk if I’m making sense but I hope I’m not the only because I have a friend that act like the first one, we are not even close, we just hang out between classes bcs she doesn’t want to be alone, but sometimes she just cringe me out so bad that I can’t even laugh no more. Does that make me a good friend tho? I like her bcs she nice and all but I can tell she’s kind of hypocrite
Well, i tell my friends I love them and we complement each other, cuddle/lay down in the grass, as well as rather touchy (hanging off of eachother, grabbing butts, my arm around their shoulder) and for me, that isn't corny. I wouldn't say enjoying hitting your friends is a good thing (even jokingly because that can quickly turn into a fight). With ...... reply
I dont think her intention is to annoy you or make you uncomfortable, just from what you've written. I think it's just humorous to act cringe to her. Like for me i be saying cringy ass sarcastic shit as a means of just jokes. So maybe just try talking to her abt it cuz i dont feel it's right to judge her behind her back cuz u have different humour....... 1 reply
Nah I get what you mean…I feel like I’m forcing myself to say those kinda stuff bc it just doesn’t feel genuine to me Tbh most of the ppl I’ve seen who have friendships like that tend to be fake n they end up talk ab each other behind their backs
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if you're planning on finding a "bff material" kinda gal why bother acting different than what you really are? if you find her cringe sometimes... tell her, if you don't like something she's doing... tell her. true friends know when you're serious and not when it comes to jokes and stuff so no need to fake shit then get mad when they keep doing it ...... reply
You guys need to have a serious convo about this. If you're uncomfortable with something she does tell her straight away. You're saying she's hypocritical but you're one too if you dislike her and still stay friends with her and go along with everything she does.
I always make fun of my best friend but there are moments when we're just sitting tog...... reply
same bro same. Like.. my friend’s literally be wanting to do that matching shit and going out stuff, it’s not that I hate it but I don’t find it fun ??? Matching shit makes me wanna drop out of school asap, my whole existence descends into a small corner. And then they be side eyeing me like bitch? Why we gonna match if y’all are gonna this...... 3 reply
There can be a balance of both!
It doesnt make you a bad friend if you dont enjoy those types of activities. For me and my bestfriend we have a balance of making fun of each other, laughing constantly, taking shit about other people, have serious convos and then we’ll have matching pfps, get touchy with each other as a joke (pretend to kiss in a...... reply