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Females Dominate BL/Yaoi And It's Just Wrong (Read All Before You Get Pissy)
Females dominate BL and Yaoi, which is bullshit honestly. There is so much that's wrong when it's a woman writing Yaoi and BL, especially the sex scenes. Like, you can't just shove a dick into an ass without any prep, they'll rip and bleed and there can be infections and shit. During prep, you also have to clean, but no female ever mentions that most likely because they don't think about it. Cumming inside of someone's ass will lead to stomach problems if not properly cleaned out. There is so much that female BL/Yaoi artists miss and it's bad because other females are reading this and then they just assume that's how gay sex happens. It's not. No female Yaoi artist ever talks about HIV or STDs which are very prominent in any type of sexual relationship, especially when it comes to sex-crazed tops that fuck every man they see until they find "the one".
Like, (artists and writers specifically) can we talk about the REAL shit, not just the shit you choose to be ignorant about?
I'm sorry if this offends any female who reads, writes, or illustrates BL/Yaoi, but it's the cold hard truth.
I'll still read this shit because I'm gay and crave gay, but it annoyed the hell out of me whenever I see shit that's just so WRONG.
You can say this about any type of smut tbh, like in hetero smut you literally have women have a whole d pierce their cervix and belly (NOT POSSIBLE) and they also somehow never get pregnant while not using a condom , also one of the most popular bl genres is literally a universe where MEN GET PREGNANT. I think people just want to see men get it on...... 2 reply
Leaving gender aside I think it’s more about how much realism do you want to include I to your story. While I agree that things like proper prepping should at least be included there are things that can be skipped. Not every facet of reality needs to always be addressed and that’s okay. For example std are not just a gay sex problem but a gener...... 1 reply
Do you know that bara is a genre of yaoi that's typically written by and for gay men? I'm mentioning it because it also has the same things you're complaining about; there's never any prep, never any mention of STDs, they never bother with safe sex. The bottom's just ready for it 24/7. And that's because it's not real lmao these stories aren't aimi...... reply
i understand what ur saying but tbh this can be said abt all porn in general bc the way porn is made is far from how sex actually is & most ppl who consume it or make it knows its not realistic but since its not actually real no one rlly think abt or cares reply
have. have you read bara manga. watched ACTUAL GAY PORN MADE BY MEN FOR MEN???
prep is skipped to get to the sexy parts all the time. unrealistic sex acts happen. no one is going to talk about the hazards of stis in their jerkoff material. if you want extremely realistic mundane sex in your smut sorry your options are limited that sucks but i...... reply
Let's be fr who tf wants std's in their porn. But also women dominate bl because it's the only porn that they can really expect to be for them. Straight porn is for men, gay porn is for men (kinda obviously) but then also lesbian porn is for men. And then straight and lesbian hentai and doujins are also for men. Most porn that includes women is inc...... 1 reply
im gonna be honest man most people arent interested in reading the 6 weeks of dilation and hour of shitting water out that goes into prepping for anal. theyre just here for the part that's gonna get their rocks off 2 reply
Women do anal as well. Everyone has an asshole, so people more or less understand the long procedure that goes into actual anal sex. Regardless of if you are a gay or a straight couple. The issue is with smut in general, it doesn't really show you the long realistic process behind actual sex.
Women self-lubricate, yes. But that doesn't mean women...... 1 reply
