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What’s worse? Unrequited love or unable to love?
I’ve asked this question before to friends and many of the response was unrequited love but I always thought being unable to love was worse. What’s your take to this question and can you please explain why.
Unrequited love. It will hurt you more than it hurts the other person.
It’s the opposite for “being unable to love.” It will hurt the other more than it hurts you- that’s IF you decide to tell them, or they have feelings towards you. If we’re talking romantic partners, I’ve never “fallen in love” or been in a serious relationship. I...... reply
For some, it might be difficult to choose. Both would be painful. But,
I'd still say being unable to love is just way worse. Unrequited love is
sad, but someday, there would be someone out there to care for you.
It might take years, or even decades, but I'm sure there will be someone.
But unable to love? That is just so, so sad. It might be be...... reply
I think unrequited love is worse because you can feel the pain of not being loved back, and not being able to do much to change the situation. When you're unable to love it hurts others, but it doesn't really hurt you. 1 reply
I think being unable to love anyone at all is much worse than unrequited love. Unrequited love means being happy although that someone doesn't reciprocate the feelings you have for them. Any kind of love is beautiful. Love is the most wonderful thing that ever happened in this broken world and being able to love anyone at all is much better than fe...... reply
I would say unable to love. It's my situation. I'm 22 and never fell in love. You end up wondering if you are normal. If you will ever find love. Going through elementary and high school without ever having a crush while you're friend is always in love with someone and just talking about their crush or how seeing them smile made their whole day. It...... 2 reply
I'd say unable to love. I had unrequited love before, but you get over it, eventually. However, when I was (for years!) pretty much stripped of emotions, unable to love or feel anything really, that sucked. A lot.
Like I felt guilty, but I couldn't FEEL it. I knew I liked someone based on all the logical reasons, but again, I couldn't FEEL it my ...... 1 reply
I guess being unable to love.
Being unable to love the person no matter how much they love you, it sucks. You'll never be able to replicate that same amount of love back and the feeling of guilt is heavy and uncomfortable. I would rather let go of the person than hurt them even more. reply
