I need your help

A month or so ago, the topic of fanservice popped off and people were saying fanservice for women is basically how the men act. Also a lot of women seem okay with simply shirtless men.

This made me think am I okay? If someone told me about a fanservice game for women and all it had was shirtless men making me breakfast and punching the baddies I would be servery disappointed but how does one sexualise men. With women it is easy. Women's bodies are heavily sexualised the breast, tighs, butt and sometimes even the neck, shoulders, belly, feet etc. But with men the only sexualised things are sexual body parts like the penis and maybe the butt. You could argue muscles can be, but too much muscles and now it is just fanservice for men who want that body.

I want to know anybody thoughts on this. Including what you have noticed, would like to see and think counts and maybe other opinions relating this topic.

I am not going to lie I am not expecting more than 2 responses on this, so if someone can give me a website and a place where it wouldn't feel out of question to ask this please tell me.