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Anyone in an agegap relationship? (Consensual adults)
Just wanted to hear yall experiences.
Im in my early 20s and hes 11 years older than me. Weve been dating for 2 years now and hes treated me better than anyone (and i had pretty high emotional standards).
When i first met him I thought he was my age lmao, and i forget a lot how much older he is. Usually i remember when I make a brainrot tiktok comment or talk about yaoi LMAO
I just wanted to hear some stories on how yall make it work!
I need a woman in their 30s to answer because I’m also in my early 20s.
When I was a preteen I thought it was okay to date someone 3-4 years older, but when I got to that age I was like that’s weird.
When I was a teenager I thought it was okay to date someone 5-6 years older, but when I got to that age I was like that’s weird.
So now in my...... 4 reply
It's not the age gap, it's the age when you get into the relationship. If you're 21+ and that person is 11 years older than you, as long as both of you give consent, it's acceptable... Anyway, my teacher told us this piece of life advice (kind of lol) while dating men, go for men who are three years older than you, because the minds of men your a...... 2 reply
I mean you’re both consenting adults so I don’t see the problem as long as you guys are on the same page with things; personally I haven’t dated someone with that big of a gap, even 4 years was too much for me just because we wanted different things in life at the stages we were in. But that doesn’t seem to be a problem for you based on wha...... 1 reply
To me, anything more than 5 years is weird. It's just something that I've always had as the limit for myself, and I find that most of my friends and partners have agreed.
But I'd say for anyone else as long as it is a healthy relationship, you were at least 20 when entering it, and the age gap isn't over 15 ish years, it's fine as long as it stay...... 1 reply
Should've probs worded it better because i saw the 20s and then the 11 years older THEN the 2 years in a rs so when I did the math I automatically thought you were 18 and he was 29 I was concerned lmao
Anyway age gaps aren't really a problem if both parties met when they're adults (18 and 19 year olds excluded) It only turns problematic when the ...... 1 reply
Honestly I see nothing wrong with it, and I kind of am wanting the same thing. I’ve been unable to get in relationships because everyone my age is so ………. Just not at all emotionally intelligent, I’m gonna put it, or just fucking WEIRD. I’m not against dating someone my age but every time I’ve tried they turn me off so quickly. Everyo...... reply
I mean my parents have a 7yrs age gap and they’re pretty chill. I don’t really care much about age gaps as long as they both love each other and are adults. Also kinda get it why some people like their partners more older(mature) reply
My partner is 9 years older than me. We met when I was 21+ (won't disclose my exact age). He is very smart, calm, gentle and very patient with me. We have the same sense of humor, and he is really supportive of my studies and my work. But It's hard sometimes for a bunch of reasons: he is a mama boy, and his mother is the most obnoxious, overly pres...... 1 reply
nothing about an early 20s (whose brain isn't fully developed) and a guy who is 11 years older says healthy relationship...i mean there are some exceptions but the advice you might get isn't worthwhile listening to 2 reply
