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I recently transferred to a new school and all of my classmates are guys exept for this one girl. How should I talk to them? Do I just do it naturally? I'm scared shitless of being ignored. The girl said that they were shy, so I'm scared they think that I'm weird or too ugly or something. I'm fine with girls, but I have a problem when speaking with people w a diff gender.
Being scared shitless of being ignored probably is linked to a fear of rejection, if you work towards solving the root of why you feel the way you do towards talking to the opposite sex you might find that a lot of shit is way easier now. Im not a therapist but this form of anxiety can be treated, look into it if you can cause it wont hurt you or n...... reply
Try treating them like people instead of boys. Boys are different, and some might be douchy, some might me shy, some might be cool and some have more in common with you than you think.
Try connecting over something you have in common, like maybe you hear something in a conversation or you can ask if others like xyz reply
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Well first understand their nature
Avoid talking to too much cringe n toxic mind or toxic masculinity boy
First talk about study related things
Then try to become social
Make sure only talk to guy who don't make u too uncomfortable
n don't talk weird at first reply
yeah yeah same thing happened to me, I had chosen maths so there were like zero girls in my class and I had also just transferred from an all girls school where I went since I was a kid. Seems like a shoujo manga plot except I was a "man-hating" masc feminist with a permanent scowl on my face. Safe to say the guys stayed away from me which was just...... 1 reply