Oldest of the sibs here to help; remind them that you love them (if you do) and make sure to show it. You only fail them if you don't let them know they're loved (again, if you do) 1 reply
As the oldest I understand why you would feel that way, though that’s not the case with me I’ve come to terms with myself that I don’t owe anyone anything and if my younger want to look up to me that can I really don’t care never did tbh. I grew up 8 yrs without them so maybe that’s why I am not attached to them as much. I am my own perso...... reply
As another older sibling (kinda, I have a younger step sis and a twin younger than me by a lil) same tbh, but I just can't find myself to love them, fully I try and I guess we have good memories but most of the time it's fights and annoyance. This may sound harsh but I don't care if they look up to me. reply
