It makes me sad / angry in a way

I really don’t like it when I see a couple with a buff bottom and a smaller top, and the everyone is saying they should switch…like- after seeing thousands of bls with big muscular tops and small tiny bottoms I finally get a bl that’s my taste and ur saying they should switch…JUST GO READ LIKE 1000+ OTHERS BLS THAT HAVE UR TASTE? Like I can only find some BLS with small top x buff bottom and most of them don’t even fall under the trope