help idfk im the one in the wrong or not cause i find my close friend very insecure and sensitive but self-centered.. she'd always judge my drawings like “it looks like....” or tell me “you look like a...." id js laugh it off and dont mind whatever she says but whn it comes to her when i said abt something in her art i said: “that doesnt even look like a fairy but a ruler of a jungle" she replied “STOP JUDGING ME” LIKE its so fucking frustrating and unfair. she also cant take jokes and has a tantrum, gets mad easily. one time when we were talking abt fun things and laughing she vented out of nowhere: "HATE MYSELF i wann die die die” its ok to vent but like OUT OF NOWHERE?? PLS TELL ME IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FITS IT ANNOYING
you're def not. she's being a hypocrite and treating you like a therapist. imo you should talk to her about how you feel and if she doesn't respect your boundaries then break off this friendship. it'll only get more exhausting if she keeps acting like that
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U should call out ur friend when they do that, that's on them if they'll take it as a criticism and continue being your friend or leave.
you're def not. she's being a hypocrite and treating you like a therapist. imo you should talk to her about how you feel and if she doesn't respect your boundaries then break off this friendship. it'll only get more exhausting if she keeps acting like that
In my opinion, she is red flag. It is overreacting. I don't understand her reactions. That's sound like immature.