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Have you guys ever outgrown a friendship?
There is no drama or anything but it just ended
I have this one best friend I've known since kinder but I realized like a year ago that we aren't really similar anymore, we don't share the same humor, belief and personality anymore. Before I thought it's just a temporary feeling but now I realized I truly outgrown them. Before I cant imagine not talking to them everyday but now I don't mind not talking to them anymore and it feels weird ig someone who once a huge part of my life being not important anymore
THEY WERE MY BSF (she doesn't know she's my bsf ^-^) FROM 2021, we don't talk that much anymore and that circle of friends i miss them sm, we used to talk EVERYDAYYYYYY reply
stop everybody is scaring me here ive been friends with somebody for 10 years now, but we are completely different. in every aspect ever and obviously i talk to them at school and stuff but out interests habits and behaviour is really different so it gets hard for me to hold a conversation with them bc of our different interests. the thing is, this...... 2 reply
Dude I'm going through that right now how did you know They didn't do anything wrong, it's just that I'm more of an extroverted and serious person. I've started realizing most of my friend group is very childish and (for lack of a better term) cringey One of my friends randomly fucking screams in class and thinks moaning loudly in front of strang...... reply
You’re not alone. The exact same thing happened to me once I finished high school. (Really middle school since i didn’t go to the same high school as my close group of friends.) After high school we hung out a bit but one of my friends had told us that she cheated on her boyfriend with her coworker (who also had a girlfriend). I couldn’t see ...... reply
Most of my friendships until highschool. (I survived highschool y'all) Idk about you guys or maybe it's just me... I've been in like 4 times in trio. Idk what happened. Am I that boring? Did the two of them
have beef with each other? I still keep in contact although not as close as anymore. But I have a few real friends that stuck with me forever...... reply
It really hits home- how lonesome life can be when you, and all of the people you think you'll spend forever with, become adults with jobs and responsibilities. looking back through the memories with people you've lost touch with can be cathartic though. Like a supercut of all the moments spent basking in the sunset of a carefree summer.
It's so ea...... reply
Many. It's normal. I'm kinda going through this too rn with a childhood friend. It's such a weird experience but like other friendships that I grew apart from; it's just how life is.
People come and go.
Cherish the memories you made and you'll find more friends later on
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Yeah, I've outgrown all my friends to realize they were pieces of unrecyclable garbage.
This isn't me, but funny enough, someone in my class got 48000 dollars worth of scholarship. Other than this one two faced jackass (SHE was screaming and crying like, dude, there's no way in hell that you could be having real tears when the person who got the s...... reply
I moved around every few years so I never had a friendship last longer than 4 years. Outgrowing friends is normal, especially when you're growing up and forming your own thoughts and opinions separate from theirs. Doesn't mean it won't hurt or feel bad sometimes. I'm older, my friends now are more mature, and we communicate a lot better, so I know ...... reply
