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What makes you think you're a bad parent in the future?
What makes you think you'll be a bad parent in the future? I just wonder because the lyrics "I can be a good mother" are in my fyp, so I just want to share what I think because I will probably become a bad parent in the future because I am too perfect. I want my child to be perfect. I strive for perfection, but at the same time, I hate perfection. I also can't become a good parent because I don't want to grow up. I still want to be a kid (I'm 20 years old). I waste my 4 years of my life ლ(´ڡ`ლ)
1. I have anger issue and I'm not a patient person. Can't imagine taking care of a baby that literally cry as a way to communicate
2. I am not good at dealing with other people emotions and comforting other people
3. I'm hella lazy
4. I'm a clean freak. Diapers, vomit, snot and drools? No thank you
I love kid but I cant imagine taking care of the...... reply
I think my anger issues would get the best of me and i dont know what i might do, maybe ill go to therapy first and foremost. Also this economy is fucked up. People can barely make it by from just sustaining themselves, much more harder if you go independent. Third reason, the thought of giving birth just gives me nightmares. Ive seen videos, tons ...... 1 reply
1. I know I am currently not strong enough to break the cycle of my family's generational trauma
2. I don't do baby puke or poo. It just grosses me out so much.
3. I have anger issues
4. I am not financially stable
5. I like being free of responsibilities
6. I can't stand the thought of creating someone with my attitude/anger issues
7. I do...... 1 reply
i ran to my responsibility when its making me uncomfortable. i do like babies and its nice to have one but having them is also hard. i have nephews that i babysit sometimes but when they're crying and being grumpy i immediately give em back to their moms and let them take care of it. i dont think i can brave up to have one. bringing someone to life...... reply
I always said that I'd be a bad parent 'cause I'd spoil my kids too much. Growing up, we were poor and we were humble because of that. I had always promised myself that when I grew up, I'd make enough money to support and spoil my children rotten, if I ever had any. I'd get a nice house, get then everything they want and more. I'd let them choose w...... reply
I would whoop their asses unfortunately because I was taught that way.. and only because I don't really know any other way to deal with actual problems like sneaking out, doing drugs, sneaking people in, just mostly teenage naughtiness.. AND my kid(s) will do all the carnivals/special events no matter what (unless they get sick or genuinely don't w...... reply
I dont know when and how i am supposed to discipline them. I am afraid i might punish them too much or too little and that will affect their entire life. Also i am afraid of pregnancy so i aint doing it ever. I just want to live with bunch of cats in a small house and pass away unexpectedly in my sofa from heart attack or something. reply
If I have a child that's 18 years or maybe 21 years that you got to teach this kid morals,ethics, how to cook, how to clean, how to drive, and STD prevention (along with the ideology of consent) but also you got to discipline them if they do something wrong like hitting someone or something (knowing my family's mental health history I am greatly te...... reply
Tbh it's the people who'll probably be good parents who don't want to have children. I think I'll be a bad parent since I'll obsess with "am I doing the same thing my xxx did to me" to my child even when I sometimes daydream having that kind of relationship. I just don't want to fuck up the life of a child because of my own insecurities. reply
