Tagged romance but there ain't romance

Ok man, I'm tired of being hopeful of a romance story to be good by just looking at the same ol cliche couple pose cover then you tried to read it but realized the Mc is a pushover or dumb enough to still be with the ml who is not even trying to be romantic but manipulative. Ain't no way making a cute healthy relationship be this hard. The conflict or drama doesn't have to be the ml being an asshole and realizing his feelings. I like them toxic relationship if it's written right and not making ml's actions justifiable.

Wdym you're aware that ml is so toxic but you still stayed? Do you love him? Is it romance? Naw I call that stockholm.(should add a genre Stockholm syndrome because I can't see even a bit romantic feeling between the two) Also hot take: possessive mls are not hot. Just because ml has a sad backstory doesn't justify him to be an ass towards others especially Mc who isn't even involved with her/his family's evil deeds. Fucking each other doesn't show how much they love each other and fix their conflict btw. As much as I hate ml, I wanna blame the Mc too because they suck at (love category) picking partners when there is a 2nd ml who treats you right bbg but at the same time I wanna put everything to the author who makes shitty romance that is 100% sure has 0 experience in love like damn you just know cause no couple would do this shit. Also pls a story where the Mc actually leaves the assshole ml. The only one I knew this happened is from interview with a murderer manhua.

Anyways, your thoughts? Also recommend me a fun or sweet romance(any genre. Just healthy and romantic that it makes me giggle like a weirdo) k bye Imma sleep