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Is my friendship cooked?
So I have my bestie, known her for more than 6 years now. We've been trough thick and thin I really love her but I have a huge problem. Whenever we go out together she literally can't go without flirting. Multiple times she started talking with a random man and I just stood next to them waiting for her to finish. And sometimes the guy sticks for the whole night. So when she recently asked to go partying, I straight up asked her to not dich me for a random guy she sees right after we arrive. Response: oh yeah ofc I want to have a girls night too! I wasn't even surprised when 30 minuted after arriving she started dancing with a guy. The whole night I felt so alone I tried to also dance with a guy but it was not what I came there for. She also disappeared for like a hour. And after the party she said that she's sorry but she felt an 'emotional connection' with the guy. While mind you she's allegedly super in love with some other guy from uni. How the hell do I explain it to her that this is not okay??
Nah listen man, you need to sit her down and tell her straight-up that what she's doing is making you not only feel under appreciated and ignored, but also really not ok. She can't just randomly go flirt with guys while y'all hang?!? That's disrespectful to you, who took out the time of day to actually spend time with her, and she uses it to go tal...... reply
If talking to her doesn't work then I'm sorry girlie, you just gotta accept that boy crazy people are not the best type of friends out there. I say distance yourself to see if she'll change but if not then better just choose yourself and hangout with people who actually wants to hangout with YOU, ykwim.
The way she constantly leaves you alone for ...... reply
Idt anyone that is that boy crazy is normal, she most likely has issues and you need to have a face to face talk tbh, depends if she can handle confrontation tho bc ik some people that get super defensive.. hopefully she’s not like that bc this is a real problem reply
For You: It makes you feel neglected and unimportant during what should be shared experiences.
For Her: It could lead to misunderstandings or conflicts in future social settings and might also affect how others perceive her commitment to her relationships or friendships.
Both need to be addressed and if not then yes she is cooked. It's not a probl...... reply
