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Why do some women wanna be gay men
I've read and heard about women wanting to love a man, but as a man. In you guys' opinion, why is that? That want can't just appear out of nowhere, right? Is it the things they read that gave them the idea?
Have u guys ever heard of transmen? Bc from ur q and the replies apparently not. Also what's up w this weird (and misogynistic) vibe of "look at these silly women, they read bl and their weak minds got confused into wanting to be men"?? Even if they're not actually trans, maybe they're sick of the way women get treated by society rather than it hav...... 4 reply
Because the concept of hetero relationship so so so skewed that society inherently think that there is an imbalance/disadvantage in the concept of solely being 'woman'. Sometimes it is because they didn't know how to express the desire to be seen as equal that they (women) substitute it to the most rough sketches of 'power', physical anatomy.
The...... 1 reply
it is often not a literal wish but a manifestation of the desire to love a man as an equal. this is a very surface level feminist interpretation of this phenomenon within fujoshi spaces
also some of these 'women' could just have gender dysphoria reply
It’s not just the things they’ve read that gave them the idea, it’s their personal experiences.
It’s different for everyone..
But to expand on BL to transgender pipeline, it’s because for a lot of queer kids that’s where/ how they first recognize their identity. It’s one of the easiest and subtle indicators. It’s recognizing tha...... 1 reply
I'm one of those women. While there's a lot of discussion about inequality and misogyny, my reason is quite simple. I just want to be a human with male anatomy and no periods, while retaining my attraction to men. This would make me gay if I were a man ¯_(ツ)_/¯ 1 reply
Theres 3 possible answers to this usually
- Closeted trans gay guy
- a straight woman that feels that theres no gender inequality in a gay mlm relationship, because of patriarchal expectations there's a position you MUST assume as a woman in most hetero relationships. Ofc not every straight couple is like that, but you will always feel like your ...... reply
i dont even think i knew that gay men could have sex before reading yaoi lmao so its most likely to do with the things they read - AND JUST TO BE CLEAR IM NOT SAYING I WANT TO BE A GAY MAN I AM VERY MUCH FINE REMAINING AS A WOMAN but it could just be the aspects of how its romanticised in bls that makes some want to experience it idfk i find it lo...... reply
Lesbian here. Hi, how are you all doing, and to answer that question, I have no fucking idea. The closest thing I’ve gotten to wanting it be a gay man was wanting it be a shapeshifter so I could turn into anyone and anything I like, other then that, idk. I like being female with my whole heart, and sure, being a guy could be cool for a day or two...... 1 reply
