Y'all, Be a normal BL reader I guess?

When I was fifteen, I discovered this site, now I'm twenty, anyway, I had this "Fujoshi" era back then, so cringry. Being so obsessed with Yaoi back then that I read every night and stuff. Now, I joined to FB BL group and saw this post that blew up before, "If my boyfriend cheated on me, I'll be okay if it's a guy" the post says, I looked at it with confusion/disgust when I saw the comments on how a lot of women would want their BF cheated on them with another guy, there's even other comments says, "If I can watch them do it, I'll enjoy it after I break up with him/Forgive him" that was kinda fucked up (THEY WERE GROWN ASS WOMEN. I WAS TEENAGER BACK THEN) I was very dumbfounded by this and disgusted, Did BL really ate your brain that you want your man to fuck another man to feed in your disgusting fantasies? There's also moments where people who reads too much BL, fetishize it so much that they'll straight up ask a gay couple about inappropriate questions and stuff? Tf? And the worst stuff is, When a Fujoshi becomes a mom, there's post that if they become a mom, they want their son to become a gay and wonder, ARE THEY GONNA BE A TOP OR BOTTOM!? Fetishizing your kids isn't good also! So yeah. Be a normal BL reader. Don't bring BL too much in real life by the way, I had that phase back then,