I mean, nothing inherently wrong with that, but it does depend on how long ago the death happened, if the person has moved on, if they've gotten professional help, etc. But that, as a singular trait, doesn't make me not want to date a person. Correlation, not causation, after all. reply
If the person has completely moved on then sure, if not then nahh. Dating a person who still has strong attachment towarss their dead lover is a whole recipe for disaster. Not only are they hurting themselves, it'll also hurt you. reply
As someone with a dead lover, i think its cruel for me to date someone cause in a way it feels like cheating for and i feel guilty for my new partner for feeling like that. Cause of this i kept switching partners and they only last like a few weeks or so and shortest i did was like 4 days. Its not my partner's fault, but generally it only depends o...... reply
The reality of the situation is that the relationship will always be complicated. That person will never be their ex and no matter how much they say they're over their late partner, there will always be a space in their heart for their late partner.
Personally? I would have to get to know their late partner (through their memories and maybe even s...... reply
It feels impossible to compete with that. It is some kind of unfinished business which can no longer be resolved unless the partner is willing to move on from that and open his/her heart again to anyone else. reply
