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am i the asshole
I told my plus size "friend" her activism is making shopping exhausting? Look, i’m a skinny and just wants to grab cute clothes and go but lately, every trip with her turns into a whole thing. she guilt trips me for shopping at stores she’s boycotting, calls me ‘part of the problem’ if i don’t wanna protest with her, and says i ‘don’t get it’ because i can fit into anything. i finally snapped and said ‘maybe if you spent less time yelling at stores and more time at the gym, you wouldn’t need to demand they change for you.’ now she’s crying and our friends are calling me a fatphobic monster. AITA for being honest, or is she just mad because im right?
Idk man, if you flirt with her too hard she might think yall are in a relationship
And it lk sounds like u want one, what with the gaslighting, but she might not be ready yet. 1 reply
Well if you’re telling that to her in public then yes it was too much, if in private then it was better but still wasn’t okay. You see some fat people doesn’t want to be that fat and they’re aware of theirs appearance, she knows without you telling her.
But demanding you were also wrong if she was a good friend she would be happy for you, ...... 1 reply
As a not really skinny person I’m gonna say partially. Maybe she
already has a eating disorder (like binge eating) or has secretly an illness that makes losing weight ten times more difficult that probably she doesn’t even known that she has, but you have to admit it was Irrational thing to say because let’s be honest even if she went to the...... reply
you're both assholes. this isn't a competition of "but they did this so it's worst", reality is that you both said and did horrible shit.
on her side, she couldve declined or asked first what stores you were going to instead of making you feel bad for buying clothes for yourself or calling you out for your body. not very cool of her due to body p...... 1 reply
