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Best friend changing (AITA)
I’ve made so many posts about this friend on this site and the general opinion I’ve gathered is they’re kinda evil.. i have a pretty shitty complex where I blame myself for everything so I just need to know if I’m the ass here. So they’ve started to sleep with adults(we’re minors), smoke and so drugs after meeting a friend.. but I’ve been pretty rude myself everytime they tell me what they’re going to do I try everything to convince them not to and kinda say things like calling them disgusting Idkk also lecturing it kinda comes in outbursts of emotions to tryyy to convince them not to.. tbh now looking back I was trying to control them a bit and shaming them was my method to try to convince them to stop.. (I have apologised and talked about it with her!!)
I’m trying to take accountability because I feel like I’ve been a prick but they’re making me feel so sad.. like idk how to explain how she acts (you guys can look at my past posts to see more abt them)
what is the use of you putting this here, if you are not even gonna listen to our advice. i don't want to sound rude or mean, but what do you think bunch of strangers can do? we already told you the best possible advice, that is consult a trusted adult, which i don't think you did, at least you didn't mention it. we also told you to distance yourse...... 3 reply
"AITA for shaming my bff over her toxic behavior to keep her from spiraling into further self destruction"
ok if you're gonna do this, you need to do this right. reply
Lmao, the fuck? Leave them, ignore them and see what happened. Why the f do you need to feel bad on whatever shit they do? Blaming yourself aint gonna do shit. If they won't listen, then you did what you had to do.
Think about yourself instead since getting involved this this kind of person will lead you up to no good. They do drugs? CUT THEM Off. ...... 2 reply
You need the 3rd party to help you. Your others friends, trusted adults and teacher
They don’t listen to you bcs they’re comfortable with how those disgusting adults treated them. Tell their parents/brother/sister let their family know
This is illegal their relatives have rights to know and control them.
You can’t oversees all of them al...... reply
