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So like what's yall thoughts on fixed positions in BLs (bottom/top)
Just doing a mini research, trying to find out how many ppl actually want a switch couple vs a fixed one. Cause honestly like comparing gay irl vs bls, not much ppl are switches too. (My fav gay bar did a survey lol with 400 ppl who answered) So it got me curious why do ppl want it so badly?? Won't share my opinion on it rn cus it might affect u answering
I WANT WANT I WANTTT PLEASEEEE PLEASEEEE SWITCHES PLEASEEEE ITS SOOOO HOT I LOVE SEEING THE BOTTOM RANDOMLY ACT TUFF AND FUCK THE TOP AND SAME THING WITH THE TOP WHEN THEY GET THE DICK INSIDE OF THEM AND THEY START MOANING LIKE CRAZY DOING THOSE FAICAL EXPRESSIONS reply
I might be in the minority here but I actually like fixed positions more!! It has nothing to do with gender roles or anything, in fact I love maculine bottoms and feminine tops, I just like the consistency. I don't mind if they experiment with things either, but I like for what they end up with to be set. Ofc I do understand that things irl are mor...... 1 reply
Well i am a woman but i really wanted to answer this lol if i had a real saber (sadly will never) i would not do a switch cause i feel it would hurt my ego being from a top to bottom..i just feel dominated in the relationship(hahaha srry to those who were offended) .Right now too....i just wish even tho i'm a woman i could just be a top （￣へ�...... 1 reply
Queer people irl pretty often have a position that they very much prefer, so I don’t get why yaoi readers think it’s unnatural. I don’t get the obsession with switch couples. I’m a woman (pansexual) and with other women I have a position I prefer as well 1 reply
I talk about this with my mate quite a lot actually. He reckons it all just stems down to compatibility and most switches tend to like switches too. He’s been in a few relationships and he often says women (guilty) or gays that prefer to bottom but want to assert dominance and think getting with a switch would be fun never turn out right—for hi...... 1 reply
Idrc if it's original characters but if it's a ship then i want my favorite one to be the bottom lol probably because most fanfictions are from the bottom POV reply
I think it's because it's mainly girls who read bls that's why they want switches. If you noticed the girls who commented on this thread, they have already expressed preference to be the top or "dominant" in their rs, wc is also reflective on how my lesbian/fem-bi friends present and want to be seen as (I'm part of several lgbt groups and is fortun...... 1 reply
I had friends that are exclusively a top or bottom and one of them said, he did try being a bottom and he didn’t like it. It’s really a preference. It really depends on the person. I also have a friend that’s switch so discourse about who tops or who bottoms in BL is weird or forcing a certain type of dynamic to someone. (Unless ofc if it’s...... reply
I prefer where they're just bottom and tops exclusively, I don't have a problem with switched but it's certainly not my thing. Gay ppl irl are exclusively tops and bottoms anyways. reply
