i just got a lil older and stopped giving a fuck lol...people are gonna be saying shit regardless...but it really just comes down to how you feel about yourself at the end of the day 3 reply
Whenever it gets unbearable I watch that one vid of the earth zooming out to remember how small of an existence I am and what I do, how I look or how I act don't really matter. Wait I'll link the vid lmao
https://youtu.be/8Are9dDbW24?si=or0hANtFuRVda9pe
We only have such a short life and I could either say I spent all my young years worrying about...... 1 reply
This is gonna sound dumb, but for a moment I just stopped caring
Like, when u really think about it, there's millions of people out there, and there's a huge probability that no matter how you change, no matter how you try to live up to everyone's standards and ideas of how you should look, how you should act, how should you respond, there's ALWAY...... reply
I just don’t think about it cause I don’t really give a damn about them so why should I be worried what they think of me. The problem for me is how should I start caring about other ppl cause I can’t remember their names and faces so I feel bad and embarrassed when they say “oh it’s you!” And wave at me cause they knew me from a few wee...... reply
OH I KNOW! SO BASICALLY EVERYONE IS ALWAYS WORRIED ABOUT THEMSELVES TOO MUCH TO ACTUALLY WORRY ABOUT YOU! LIKE THEY'RE ALL WORRIED THAT EVERYONE IS JUDGING THEM AND SO EVERYONE WALKS AROUND SELF CONSCIOUS SO I JUST DO WHAT EVER I WANT BC I KNOW THEY DONT GAF AB ME
HOPE THIS HELPS reply
I began to stop caring about what other’s thought (for the most part), when I started realizing how little and fleetingly the average person thinks about me.
That might sound like a bad thing, but it’s not. I could have done the most embarrassing thing, and fixate it on it all day, but in reality, the person who observed my embarrassment, reg...... reply
I think you never actually fully stop, but you just organize it by priority and that's what makes you stop caring.
For instance, if you go outside, i think of it like this, these ppl dont pay my bills nor do they feed me or benefit me in any way so why should I care, and these r ppl i only see once in a lifetime even if in worst scenarios where you...... reply
radical acceptance, babe
you need to genuinely deeply accept the fact that other people will never understand you fully because that's impossible. people will perceive you for a brief moment in time and judge based on what they have seen. we all have opinions about how people should be. the most important thing is to decide for yourself what is i...... reply
i’ll be fr with u and say whatever these people tell you, none of it will work because u will hold the same beliefs. when u finally stop caring abt what other people think, you will think the same as what theyre telling you.
the way u stop is that u continuously tell yourself that youre good enough and dont need others validation. you keep thinki...... reply
