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alright ima try to keep this short. my girlfriend and i have been dating for over 2 years and this shit is still bothering me, idk what i need from this either, whether it’s reinsurance or someone who relates but i’m a virgin; or was a virgin idk but my gf is the only one who’ve i’ve had sex w and im not her first and it makes me feel sooooooo bad. knowing she’s been with more than one person sexually kill’s me inside and i know she can’t fix it and i know it’s not her fault and i should be a big girl but not only was it with other people it was with men…. twice her age…. god all i do is hyper fixates on what it made her feel like or if she liked it or what they looked like. idk but it bothers me sk fucking much like actually. AND THENNN I FOUND A SNAP FROM LIKE 3 YEARS AHO RECENTLY FROM HER SAYING “HAPPY BIRHTFSY TO THE ONLY GUY THAT MADE ME CUM” BUT MIND YOU SHE TOLD ME IM THE ONLY ONE WHO MADE HER FINSIH. Anyways im not breaking up with her cus of this but it effects me a lot idk what to do lol
Yall need to really need to have a talk, the more you try to ignore how you feel about something that bothers you (whether anyone can fix the situation or not) it’s gonna cause problems in your relationship. But honestly just do what you feel is best for yall. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 yrs we still have our ups and downs but we...... reply
I really think you should talk to her—especially since this is hurting you so deeply. When insecurities like this go unspoken, they start to affect the way we feel in the relationship and how we treat our partner, even if we don’t mean for that to happen.
I’ve never been in a relationship myself, but my best friend is in one, and she deals w...... reply
Idk man, if I found out a person I love had sex with men twice her age before we dated, jealousy would not be the main feeling. You should talk to your gf about the snap if it worries you, but objectively..... it's a jokey snap from a year before your relationship.
If you feel insecure about being a virgin when you started going out with her, whic...... 1 reply
