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Tell partner what you read
For ppl that are in a relationship or might get in one in the future. Do you think you’d tell your partner the stuff you read? Like hardcore smut. BL, GL or Straight. (Although there is def more stigma around the BL/GL). And if you have what was it like?
Why would anybody date someone if they don’t match your freak and read yaoi or yuri too… if I dated someone we’d definitely be giving each other recs often. I’d feel a bit lonely if they didn’t read too. reply
So I shared some yaoi to him and uhm... He's become a freak like he just sends me smut panels out of nowhere now and say 'let's try this next time' like boy if you don't calm your tits down reply
I think I’d tell my future partner about 1 month in. I wouldn’t want to hide it for potentially the rest of my life. Thats js me tho, maybe others have a reason they couldn’t tell their partner like homophobia or smt reply
Me glancing around.. About the smut though, I wouldn't mind much, I think? I would prefer not to bring it up though, it's different speaking to someone who knows you personally and some people oonline reply
Tbh, I don't even hide it to anyone, besides family
If they wanna peak at my phone and see what I'm reading, wth sure, go ahead
Most of the times I read smut I don't even read it to masturbate, most of the times I'm reading that shit w a straight face or kinda js passing through pages if the smut is constant during the chapters
Basically, I don't...... reply
Most definitely. I'd also be upfront with it. If I'm dating you with the intention of becoming your girlfriend this is something that I feel I need to be honest about. I'm also not ashamed of what I read. My mom, dad, sisters, uncle, and even grandma know what I read. If my future partner can't or won't treat me as a normal human being for my taste...... reply