Baby fever, In this economy???????????
And also how the world is rn????????????????????? Crazy talk
Part of me feels like bringing a kid to the world right now is like throwing a kid on a literal dumpster fire reply
As someone who is pregnant, if u REALLY want to have a child please, please, PLEASE make sure it’s with someone u love and not just “oh I wanna have a kid” bc 20 is REALLY young to have a kid (tho I’m only 7 years older than u) but still u need to think about ur future and how u might deal with it, I’m not entirely discouraging u tho, jus...... 2 reply
i just redirect my "i want to have a kid" energy into the before steps like "i want to have an apartment to raise my kid in" and "i want to become a good parent" which are both probably not happening until i'm 30 until then its just child care manhwa reply
My parents had me when they were only 19 years old and let me tell you it was hell they were horrible parents I'm traumatized by them and have many problems because of them they were not ready to have a kid they did not have the resources to have a kid and if you have a kid right now you're only going to be putting a lot of unnecessary worries on...... 1 reply
1. This will change your body forever
2. Your life won’t be yours anymore it’ll be your child’s
3. When it’s 14 it’s going to call you a bitch
3. You’ll need to take it to the doctors at least a few times a year and it throws up everywhere
4. Your friendships strain a bit from this cause you have no time to hang out
5. Why have a kid ...... reply
Guys we can’t ALL discourage them because with the declining birth rates and population plus much of our generation not wanting kids, someone’s gotta do it 1 reply
