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do you have friends?
I always have this feeling of detachment. Like there's a wall between myself and everyone. I have friends but not FRIENDS that I can talk to when I'm the one struggling.
Although I have accepted that my role will always be the 'therapist' and being fine with it, sometimes I still wonder if someone would come looking for me when I'm gone. (=・ω・=)
I stopped putting in efforts when I noticed the friendship wasn't mutual, when I wasn't being heard, and felt excluded while mind u giving my best at keeping the friendship going. So yeah I don't have friends and I really enjoy being alone now reply
I’ve got maybe 20-25 friends I’d say from two different friend groups - a group of 5 that I’ve known since hs and a group of 15-20 from college/uni, but I wouldn’t talk about anything personal with them. Theyre more like drinking buddies than anything, itll take time to find your people 2 reply
I’ve had zero friends since childhood. i do have people I hang out with, but I wouldn’t really consider it friendship they’re just people I’m with out of convenience. we talk and spend time together because we’re in the same place, but personally, i don’t feel any real connection beyond that. 1 reply
I've never really opened up to my friends in a vulnerable way either, the thought makes me uncomfortable. I have once before and the aftermath was just really awkward lol. I don't mind though I'm blessed to have a parent I can talk to about my problems. reply
My dad gave me the "make friends everywhere you go" gene.
My energy charms hearts so I have plenty but, they're all so dumb I'd be stupid to confide in them.
I still do, it's just a stupid decision on my part.
I'm like, "My step mom left rotten potatoes in my cabinet." And their response is them zoning out.
I say, "My house caught fire." And I'm me...... 1 reply
I got EXTREMELY lucky. I have a group of 7 maybe 6 now but it was total luck. No one is petty and so in 10 years of friendship we have not had a SINGLE serious disagreement. I COULDNT LIVE WITHOUT THEM BTW
I say 6 because one of us has been more distant but she has some things going on and we are always trying to reach out but they always seem bus...... reply