Sorry, guys! During system maintenance, some functions like comment are unavailable.
Maturing
To the people that have been reading/been apart of a fandom for a long time... Do you think you guys have matured? Like would you say they are certain things you've said in the past about a certain manga/character that you take back now because you realised it wasn't all sunshine and rainbows? Or are you sticking with every single thing you've said since the beginning of your journey with a fandom
If yes...whats that opinion? Like what did you say before that you've matured now and realised you've changed your mind on the topic?
Yes and no(? Ive always thought the same way imo but It finally clicked that i dont HAVE to finish every messed up rapey story i come across and I stopped doubting my own perspective on them
Like in 2020 I was gaslighting myself that those popular manhwas were actually lovely and not toxic stories full of dubcon just bc the fans romanticized it reply
Prolly everything stayed the same… uhm. I’m very set on things. Or loyal to a thought or belief I guess?
Also maybe it helps that I’ve always been a huge hater. I would see a red flag and hold the hugest grudge against them, even when it was common for young girls to be into that thing (no idea why but it def was a thing) reply
